My boyfriend of 6 years moved out 3 weeks ago and left me for another female. I want all of his stuff gone since he has made it clear he wants nothing to do with me anymore. He has gotten about 85% of his stuff out but there's still stuff in my basement taken up space, in my shed, and on my lawn outside in the backyard. I have told him to get it but I feel he is taking his sweet time, he has the time to do it as he just had a week off from work and was in the area and spends alot of time with the new *****. I was thinking of telling him if it's not all out by a certain date I will start bringing stuff to the dump. What is a sufficient time I should allow for this stuff to be here?
2007-07-15 09:05:10 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If i were you i would call him tell him he has by a certain date to pick it all up. I'd also tell him if he doesn't do it or doesn't get everything by that date. You can take it out the front for passersby to collect because if he didnt get it he musn't want it. What evers left can go to the goodwill.
That way you wont have to see his face or his stuff again and can move on.
2007-07-15 09:16:36 · answer #1 · answered by Te 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would have to say 3 to 5 days. I wouldn't put the stuff in the trash. I probably donate the stuff to the salvation army or something like that.
2007-07-15 09:17:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell him have it out by Friday if not put it all in the front yard with a Free sign on it it will be gone in a couple of hours next Saturday
2007-07-15 09:11:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it a week and if he still doesn't come to get it, advise them that you are getting rid of it. Throw out the trash, just like him.
2007-07-15 10:04:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give him 7) days. If he's got time to mess w/her, he's got time to come and get his stuff. Good luck!!
2007-07-15 09:09:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
7 to 10 days is reasonable, but no more than ten*....
2007-07-15 09:29:46 · answer #6 · answered by dca2003311@yahoo.com 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him the deadline if it passes put it on the curb!
2007-07-15 09:10:30 · answer #7 · answered by Canuck1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋