This is the second day in which my boyfriend has not called me. He usually talks to me all the time everyday. He has been having trouble with his phone tho.
I really want to talk to him. He said his favorite thing to do is talk to me. He said i meant the world to him and that he does not feel himself without me. but i dont know if he meant it...should i call his house?????? Or wait a nother day. Does he care about me anymore?
2007-07-15 08:14:37 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am with Twinka, your last sentence reeks of desparation. Get a hobby, watching the hands of the clock go by doesnt count!!!
Go swimming, go shopping, go,go,go. Make sure you are not there when he does call! Give him pause.
2007-07-15 08:21:00 · answer #1 · answered by Lynn 5 · 4⤊ 1⤋
You don't have to worry about being thought of as clingy like you said it's been two days.
I would just go in person and talk with him. Seeing the face of the one I care about and talk to is a lot better than just talking on the phone that may have problems.
I wouldn't wait another day. Two is enough so go ahead and call.
2007-07-15 08:45:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't call him just yet... if he told you he is experiencing phone problems, then he has no way of speaking to you whether you call him or not right? Give him until tomorrow, hopefully the phone line will be up and running by then.. if you don't hear from him within a resonable amount of time, go ahead and call and tell him you missed him and wanted to make sure he was okay. I know how it is, they get you used to one thing then they stop doing it.. not sure if it's because they want to reverse the tables and have you wait by the phone, but I wouldn't be glued to that phone.. keep your life going.
2007-07-15 08:20:31 · answer #3 · answered by Dee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is your boyfriend as you say, and he meant all the other things he said, then you have a right to call him. Just call and ask if he is OK because you haven't heard from him in a couple days. Don't sound needy or whiny, just caring and concerned. It's better than stressing over it. Just be yourself. If he doesn't call, then you have your answer.
2007-07-15 08:20:21 · answer #4 · answered by LvSushi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call him and if he does answer dont blow up on him saying why didnt you call me! instead show him you feel the same way and that was the reason for you calling him. itts been 2 days only 2 so calm down you still mean the world to him im sure. may be he has had a lot to do these days. good luck
2007-07-15 08:19:51 · answer #5 · answered by Jonno 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good question....I'd say give him a break and do your best to let him work it out.
If all has been well up to now, then I'm sure everything's ok. Just give him time to get things straightened out.
I'm gl;ad to see that you are aware of the possibility of you being clingy! You get major points for that. I take that as you being VERY sweet and considerate and now just thinking about yourself, even tho I realize that you are burning to talk to him.
I had a gf for 8 yrs.....long distance. VERY difficult relationship, but we talked every day. We both made great effort to keep contact. We may get married.....not sure. It may just be the hopeless-romantic-idiot part of me talking. I am crazy about her....and miss her when we don't talk, but I do understand that things happen. You should too. Just give of yourself here and maybe do email instead, or chat, and give him time to get things reckoned and straightened out.
Everything WILL be ok. :)
2007-07-15 08:23:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should call him.
He may be testing you to see if you care enough to call even when he doesn't.
Or
He might be sick or was in an accident. Call him and ask if he's okay. You never know, something may have come up. A family emergency; anything could have happened. Call him and ask him what's up.
2007-07-15 08:27:34 · answer #7 · answered by Sunshine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Wait until he calls you. If he cares enough like he says he does, he'll make the effort and pick up his house phone to call you.
2007-07-15 08:17:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has not called by this evening, then call him in the morning. Give him two full days of not calling before you do anything.
2007-07-15 08:18:24 · answer #9 · answered by Patti C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call. if he says it is his favorite thing to do then he could be waiting for you to make the call that would show your interested in talking to him too. you know how he feels now he wants to see how you feel. if you do call and he doesn't answer or call back then you will know that he doesn't have the interest any longer.
2007-07-15 08:19:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋