my boyfreind and I fight all the time over my family and i left him and the only way my mom would let me stay with her is if i put an epo on him if i drop it and go back to him i lose my family
2007-07-15 07:04:55 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
well you have to decide is if you love your boyfriend and see your self marrying him. now your family should love you regaurdless of who you are with, and its wrong for them to tell you to choose between the man you love(?) and them. family will never truly leave i think its more of a threat that they say to scare us. my husbands family gave my husband the same ultimatum well he choose me well eventually and his family came back around. dont let anybody tell you who to be with i wish you the best of luck
2007-07-15 07:14:41 · answer #1 · answered by JOELEANE W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as if they are both being unfair to you. You should not have to choose.
My brother married a horrible woman. It turned out badly. They had three girls. I never made him choose. I just supported him and am close to his children. That is all I could do. I would never think of making him choose between his family (birth family) and his choice of mates. He always knew that his family was there to support him and his children and yes, even his tramp of a wife.
The only reason I am going on now about his wife is because she cheated on my brother and he committed suicide (recently). I am very sad but have comfort in the the thought that I never caused him any conflict; he always knew I was there for him and would be nice and friendly to his wife.
This is probably more than you wanted to know about me, but I feel very strongly that anyone who loves you would not make you choose. Neither your bf or your family should make you choose.
2007-07-15 07:30:20 · answer #2 · answered by Patti C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Family > Relationships anyday.
Friends and boyfriends come and go, but you're pretty much stuck with your family for forever! It is your choice to decide what you want to do, but I strongly suggest family over boyfriend. If hes even making you choose in the first place, he is being selfish and does not want what's best for you!
2007-07-15 07:13:53 · answer #3 · answered by crazybeautifularies 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since your mother is letting you stay with her, your allegiance is to your family. I wonder how old you are. When you are independent, then it will be your boyfriend/husband that comes first.
2007-07-15 07:18:30 · answer #4 · answered by barthebear 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i will always choose my family over my bf....if ur not married yet then all u have to do is thinking that family comes first bf second. good luck!
2007-07-15 07:10:25 · answer #5 · answered by jane 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your family is wwwwwwwwwaaaaaaaaayyyyyyy more important than your boyfriend.
2007-07-15 07:24:31 · answer #6 · answered by BeHappy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your family of course!!! boyfriends come and go but your familiy is forever!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-07-15 07:09:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋