im preagnant..and im only 12 help?

Answer 1

Tell your parents, first, then get to the doctor.

Answer 2

Go to your parents and look into adoption. I was 17 with my first kid and that was still too young to be a parent, 12 is definitely too young. Don't go for the whole my parents can help or will raise the baby for me as the kid deserves two parents without the confusion of who is my mom, grandma and who is my dad, grandpa. Remember the trauma of this and don't get pregnant again until you are old enough to do right by a baby. How old is the dad? A long time friend of mine had a niece who was 13 when she got pregnant and they wanted to give up the baby. The boys mom (he was 16) wanted to keep the baby and raise it for herself until the girls family told her if she pursued the matter they would press statutory rape against her son. The baby went to a good financially stable couple who were unable to have kids of their own. You also need to get checked for STDS sexually transmitted diseases. You are too young to be having sex, but if you will not stop then please use birth control and condoms as this will protect you from any future pregnancy's and STDS. There are a lot of people who cannot have children because of the STDS they caught in their youth. Whether it is statutory rape or not depends on the state you live in, in this state (Washington) he better only be 13 or he can be charged as it is a crime. Good luck

Answer 3

First, are you absolutely sure you are pregnant? Have you been having unprotected sex and then missed your period? If yes, go to your doctor. You don't have to tell your parents, and your doctor doesn't have to tell your parents, either. I would suggest telling them because their support will be very helpful. You are so young that having a child will be very stressful, even if you choose to give it up for adoption. It will be a major stress on your body and mind. You have three options, essentially: the first one, keep the baby and raise it (probably the hardest and longest option), keep the baby and put it up for adoption at birth (hard emotionally and physically), or get an abortion (very difficult emotionally but probably the best bet for your physical well-being.) The first thing you need to do, though, is go to your doctor. Then he/she can make sure you don't have any diseases or are in poor health and he/she can help you decide what you want to do.

Answer 4

Have you talked to anyone about this yet Sweety? I know how hard it will be to tell your parents, but they have to know ASAP. If you feel you can not tell them yourself, then talk to someone else, an Aunt, Uncle, Grandmother, or a school counselor, and ask them if they can have a family meeting with you, them, and your parents, and have them tell your Mom/Dad. This will break the ice and make it easier for you. What you need now is support. Just please do not do anything drastic until the family get-together. You will have regrets the rest of your life if you "happen" to lose the baby intentionally. Trust me Babe. Your parents will help you decide what is best for you and your baby. Good luck hon. Keep me informed, will you? I am worried about you.

Answer 5

You should go to an adult right away, preferrably your parents, but I know that can be hard and you may want to go to a family friend or church member. Your body is not developed enough for you to have a child when you are a child yourself. While I am against abortion, I will say that if my 12 year old daughter was pregnant that is exactly what she would have to do.

Answer 6

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Answer 7

DONT GET AN ABORTION would be the first thing i would tell you. If you do you will live with serious regret and you will be killing a human being!! you need to tell your parents. They can help you find a good doctor and help you to possibly go to an adoption center or help you raise this baby.

Answer 8

please talk to your parents. first off, becca, most places under a certain age (i think 16) you need parental consent for an abortion. if he wasnt over 18, it wasnt rape. you havent given many details though hon; was it consensual sex? have you told anyone yet? did you only miss your period, or did you get a positive test? there are so many more factors and its hard to really help without knowing them; find a pregnancy and parenting center nearby; they can help you tell who you need to, will help give you options and info on these options, and help decide whats best for YOU. they can also help with supplies; like maternity clothes, diapers, furniture, etc. you also need to see a doctor asap; youll be considered high risk being such a young age. good luck to you, and i hope you find the best solution for yourself.

Answer 9

For the sake of your unborn baby, please come clean with your parents/guardians. Don't be one of those pregnant mothers who hides the pregnancy from everyone then throws away the baby. Please don't do that.

Now, you have to grow up and grow up FAST! That baby depends on you. So take yourself to your parents/guardians and come clean with them. then you will have to go to OB appoitnmetns.

Becca: Where do you suggest she get the money for abortion?

Cammie: I'd have to assume welfare will foot the bill for the mother and baby - if it still works that way. I'm sure it does. Killing an innocent baby should NEVER be a form of a contraceptive because of a poor choice made by anyone.

Adoption is always an option!

Answer 10

12 IS WAY TOO YOUNG TO HAVE SEX OR A BABY! you should tell your mom and whoever made you pregnant should go to prison you are just a child and too young to have sex at all! it is against the law for a reason! your mom should also get you an abortion and a complete check up to be sure you don't have any std or HIV or aids.you need to not have sex,you certainly know about birth control because you think its what cool to be pregnant when you cant even drive yourself? its not it is wrong! get some help and use birth control like you should have if you thought it was OK to have sex ,you know its not! good luck.abortion or adoption cause you have nothing to offer a baby but hopeless poverty and shame.

Answer 11

Discuss whether your parents will help you or not. If not, start looking into adoption. You are too young to raise this baby on your own. You can't even get a job for another 4 years, or live on your own for another 6 years.