37,as i look very young, he changed,he said he couldn't see me the same way and that we didn't have future together because of this age gap.Before the age matter he was very attached to me.This 2 weeks were hard for me but i was trying my best to get it over.Before 2 days he sent me a sms saying:"i want you to give us another try no matter how old you are".I was surprised as when we ended he sounded very determined not to come back again.So we met and i gave him another chance but he seems a little distant.He said that he reconsidered the whole matter and he wants to be with me but i don't know if i can trust him.I like him but i want the things to be like in the beginning.How you see this situation?
2007-07-15 06:42:10 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you got a better job he might be using you. my wife is 24 I'm 18 and things will last forever we love each other VERY MUCH. hope things work out for you if he messes things up this time i would say move on your wasting your time. have a GREAT DAY!
2007-07-15 06:50:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust him? You started it off with the lies(symantics) by not telling him your age.
He was straight forward said, sorry I can't do older women, and now he's changed his mind...
Why wouldn't you be able to trust him???
As for the situation, it's still a 10 year gap, and we know he doesn't like the gap, nurture vs nature, so we can assume his family won't like the gap, and from that you'll have animosity, and from there more problems, and subconsiously he's always thinking, "she's 10 years older" and his friends will be telling him "you're dating a cougar" so.....
Conclusion, if I was gambling, my money is that this relationship won't develop into marriage, it might last if it's just a "relationship" but again, I'd put money on that he'll move onto if not better younger creatures....
Secondly, if I was 37, I wouldn't be wasting time with an adolecent, you're wasting precious time, because soon you'll be 40 and it only gets harder to find guys at that point(for relationships).
But for underdogs sake, good luck. All the best, I don't mind being wrong.
2007-07-15 06:45:46 · answer #2 · answered by kamustahappy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-21 09:20:16 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to me age is just a number. If you told him your age and didnt lie upfront he is making excuses. I think that when he told you the first time around maybe he had gotten interested in somebody else. He sounds full of **** and if i were you i wouldnt talk to him. Men are suppose to be more mature then women especially at that age. Dont set your self up for b s find you a real man.
2007-07-15 06:50:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he missed your sweet tender love and he came back.
you need to be careful that he does not hurt you.
sounds like he is mercurial and could take off at anytime.
this puts you in a very difficult position.
if your gut tells you he is flip flopping, seriously consider ending the relationship, even though is will put a painful sting in your heart.
a funny thing, time is the only way to really tell what's what, so give it some time.
let us know how things are in one month!
2007-07-15 06:55:55 · answer #5 · answered by ramni222 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was shocked at first, but now he is realizing that age doesn't matter because he loves you he is still getting used to the idea though, he just needs some time
2007-07-15 06:46:40 · answer #6 · answered by Chris 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is crazy!
I would ask what the big deal with the age was in the first place. Maybe he thinks you want to move in, get married and have kids in a year. Maybe he thinks your eggs are old... just figure it out and it will make you both feel better.
2007-07-15 06:46:41 · answer #7 · answered by ThisGalRocks! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to be with someone who thinks you are less attractive as a partner because you're older than him? Eventually, you and he will get into a fight and he's going to throw that in your face. Get out of it now and find someone who appreciates you.
2007-07-15 06:45:47 · answer #8 · answered by Cake 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oedipus complex anyone. If it makes you happy keep on keeping on. But when he's 37 you'll be 47 and he might end up hurting eventually.
2007-07-15 06:47:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nice-day, Sounds like it is a matter of maturity ! You deserve a mature man that adores you and wants to marry you !
2007-07-15 06:56:11 · answer #10 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋