should he have called?

Question

I have a trivial issue that i need an answer to to settle an argument...my bf called me the morning of his cousin's engagement party, i was feelin really low and told him..then he had to go immediately and he said he would call within 20 mins...2 hrs later i never got a call back and i was really upset with him. he thinks im being unreasonable because he had an event to attend and he got caught up w/ getting ready/driving there and getting busy there...but im upset that he couldnt even call for 30 seconds (especially when i was already feelin like ****)and say, 'hey,im realy busy can i call u later'....who is wrong? we are having a very big fight over this.please help

Answer 1

Am I a spoiled rotten little hussy because I wanted my bf to call and baby me instead of attending to his family? Am I wrong to be mad at him for not holding my hand and making me feel good? Am I beyond selfish and unreasonable?
YES!

Answer 2

He should have called but now the question is how much are you going to let this affect the relationship. Which is more important to you