I was chatting with a girl today that likes me and I like her alot. We went out casually a couple of months ago. We kissed a few times but nothing else happened. Today, she suddenly came out with the comment that she's "not bothered about length or girth." What does this mean lol? I didn't know where to put myself and she then pretended that she hadn't said anything. Why come out with a comment like that eh? We were chatting about the weather!
2007-07-15 05:59:57 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe she's wondering why you haven't been more agressive and is assuming that you're self conscious about the size of your penis. My advice to you is to just ignore that comment, but step up your sexual aggresiveness. Show her some confidence. When you're kissing her tug on the back of her hair slightly (at the nape of the neck), kiss the side and back of her neck... most women love this. Above all be agressive but respectful, and watch to see how she reacts to figure out how agressive you should be. Good luck.
2007-07-15 09:02:52 · answer #1 · answered by Solarcide 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it sound to me like she has heard from somewhere that you are not very well endowed (Join my club) , and want to put you at ease.
You will just have to play it by ear, and see what happens.
Whether that is true or not, learn how to go for a long time without "Shooting your load." and how to get a female really worked up.
Good luck
2007-07-15 13:12:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may be aware that guys are concerned about this because of all the "bigger is better" and "size counts" business. It has become an obsession for men and for women in our culture. Maybe you said something that gave her the idea that you were concerned about your size. She slipped that in, to let you know she didn't care. Pretty cool lady, I think. She is of the school, "It's not the size but how you use it." Be thankful.
2007-07-15 13:04:30 · answer #3 · answered by Brant 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
LOL! Sorry dude, but you've been hit. She blurted it out and then acted like she didn't say it because you didn't respond to it fast enough, you got flustered and she probably thought that meant you weren't interested, either way it's a girl protecting herself from rejection.
It's funny listening to boys and girls play their games.
2007-07-15 13:05:53 · answer #4 · answered by Yankee Micmac 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The only person you should be communicating with right now is her. She's trying to tell you to stop beating around the bush and show her some manhood. C'mon, dude!
2007-07-15 13:05:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she typed the wrong sentence in the wrong chatting window, eh?
2007-07-15 13:10:29 · answer #6 · answered by J S 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Freudian slip? Maybe she wasn't feeling very confident, and just sort of blurted it out to make you feel more confident? Or maybe she is just another crazy female that says crazy things.
2007-07-15 13:04:30 · answer #7 · answered by wildflower12 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Charlie,
When I do this, it is a blatant attempt to turn or forcefully steer the conversation to sex. And then I hope that the dude will end up buried deeply between my.... Let's keep this cleanish. ;)
2007-07-15 13:04:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
K, If you don't know what she was trying to say then you are really out of it. I'll leave it to the rest of the answerers to answer the rest of the question in full detail.
2007-07-15 13:02:50 · answer #9 · answered by Whisper from the Myst 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
My guess is that she was chatting with more than one person and she accidentally sent the message to you instead of the person it was intended to.
2007-07-15 13:08:04 · answer #10 · answered by Dimitar A 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋