im depressed?

Question

ok i have never had a girlfriend in my life and all of my friends have had like 6 im 14 going into grade 9 and all my friends are saying you'll have better luck in ballenas secondary school im like 5"3 black hair and green eyes but would anyone think i could have the slighttest bit of luck in high school even know you guys dont know me but well i dont think ill be lucky.

Answer 1

it's ok! i'm 13 and i've only had two boyfriends. one lived too far away so it didn't work out, and the other one was just using me so he could say he had a "hot" girlfriend.

my cousin (who's a year younger than nme) has had 5 girlfriends. when one relationship ends it only takes him like a month to find someone new and sometimes it makes me feel like there's something wrong with me.

but i think in highschool people generally do have better luck.

best wishes!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

and don't worry about it, you're perfectly normal, you sound cute too ;)

Answer 2

dont worry riley ur my friend

so dont worry u will get one soon i had like only probable 2 or 3 my whole life

so dont worry all u have to do is go up to the person and ask her out but first before u do that get to know her first

like talk about things like hows your life how r u and that other stuff

then when u think its time, just ask her out and c how it goes if she says no then dont worry

ur not her type but get to know her

and in high school **** u will get gfs

but u have to ask them out though dont b shy even though some people r just go up to her and ask her

so boy u will get a gf i know u will

ull have luck everyone has luck just got to give it a chance

soo good luck love yuh buddy hope u find someone great =]

Answer 3

hey, don't rush urself. U r only 14. I don't see why u r in a hurry to be in a relationship. U should enjoy being single and free because u r still young. My advice for u is don't rush urself. Love cannot be rushed. True love will come when the time comes. Just don't rush urself into a relationship. The right girl will come to u soon

Answer 4

High School is a totally diffrent ball park. you meet so many more people and you have so many more experiences. YES !! i think you will find a girlfriend. FYI : girls love guys who they can talk to so try being a friend first !! Good Luck !

Answer 5

Riley, first off your friends are lying to you. Guys will lie to other guys saying they are having sex, or dating girls, when in reality the closest they get is sitting next to them in class. Call them out next time you suspect a lie, like get details of the date and say, lets go talk to "Cindy" about that date. Watch 'em backpeddle and try to lie their way out of it...

Don't be depressed, your young and its an awkward age. The secret to dating girls is to get involved in activities that put you close to them (like take Home Ec. class instead of Auto shop), or get involved in after school activies (year book, student assocition, co-ed sports, etc). This will give you the opportunity to be close to them, talk to them, and perhaps even ask them out. The other secret is don't worry, you have PLENTY of time for girls. and most of your friends now won't be your friends after highschool. Oh yeah, and girls are just as nervous about dating as you are!

Answer 6

In secondary school you are going to be logging so many chicks you wont be able to see straight. No worries my good man......

Answer 7

I've never had a girlfriend, and I'm 19. I should be the one feeling depressed.

Answer 8

you shouldnt compare your life to others. everyone goes on their own pace. and plus youre only 14... i didnt have any serious relationships until that age. so in otherwords youll be fine.

Answer 9

Why are you depressed for that? You're only 14...

Answer 10

yeah, you will have more luck in high school. there are a lot more girls