my fiance is careless!!?

Question

i live with my fiance, and his brother at the same house, so i took a shower, was about to get dressed, my careless fiance, gets dressed faster, and just opens the bedroom door, and i said:"WAIT", but too late the door was already open, and his brother saw me naked!!

i feel so upset, and humiliated, i can't get out of the bedroom and look in his brothers eyes, it makes me want to puke, and what's killing me, is that my fiance, doesn't see it as a big deal, he's like:" ok i said i'm sorry, what do you want me to do, and what's the big deal?!"

I'm so mad!!!

Answer 1

Talk to him again, make him understand how upset you are so it doesn't happen again

Answer 2

Sounds like maybe it was set-up. But if he doesn't have the awareness to keep track of other people, maybe you should worry about the long-term relationship you're getting into. Will he leave the babies on the top of the car? Maybe. Will he forget to lock your door at your house? Who knows?

I'm surprised that your fiance's brother hasn't seen you naked, or in some state of undress, before. You guys live together, and in tight quarters, you'll be seeing a lot of each other. And I don't mean time-wise! Tell him it bothers you, and you him to be cautious of what's going on in your bedroom when he comes and goes.

Answer 3

You've already told him this bothered you, and he's already apologized. Assuming you've likewise discussed remedies to keep this from happening again, what else do you expect anyone to do about it? He can't un-make it happen, and it's not worthy of flogging him so what would you settle for in terms of making this up to you? Stuff will happen, that's a guarantee....some of it through carelessness, and some of it purely coincidental. If you're too thin-skinned to let some things go you're really not ready to have a fiance yet, and certainly not ready to walk down the aisle. Think about it.