How can I stop having horrific dreams about spiders?

Question

I actually quite like spiders ( I have 3 resident in my bathroom and one behind the bed!) but these nightly dreams are making me scared of them. Last night I dreamt a huge white one was sucking blood out of my arm - I screamed and screamed and woke up the neighbours! I think I know that spider = mother, I haven't spoken to mine for 10 years, and have no intention of tracing her/making up so that is a non-starter for a solution. Will I always get these dreams? (I had them when I used to speak to her too!)

Answer 1

Spider dreams are unresolved issues of betrayal.
You see, spiders know a lot about a family, they can lurk quietly in a corner in your house and watch everything.
In that sense, Your dream may be some kind of threat resembling blackmail. Something you do not want to be revealed might possibly get revealed.
What is confusing is your association of this dream with your mother.
Rethink and reassess your relationship with your mother now. Avoidance of conflict or confrontation might have been your only way of dealing with problems.
Your spider dreams may be telling you that the problems are too big to ignore. or that there is a need to handle it now.
She has health problems? Getting in touch could result in your losing all your money to help pay this health problems?
She is praying somewhere for help from you?
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On the other hand, it can be as simple as one of your spiders (residents in your house) is hungry and cannot find food. As you are sleeping, she/he is eying you thinking "why is she not feeding me?" I am hungry and starving and so pale now, maybe I can take an eensie weensie teeny bite of her, she looks very well fed so she wont even notice" LOL

Answer 2

Spiders represent deception. A white spider represents a deception which has the appearance that it is pure and right. So, what your dream is showing you is that this white deception is sucking the life out of you. There some kind of lie you have allowed yourself to be influenced by. As a result it is drainin you. Maybe the deception is that you don't need to make up with you mother and it's pulling on your heart and soul.

Answer 3

I'm going to take a wild guess here but I don't think the spider is your mother. I'm thinking that you may not like spiders as much as you think you do, or at least your subconscience doesn't want them living in the house. Try relocating the spiders to the outdoors where they belong and see what happens.

Answer 4

Script your dream...when you go to bed tonight ddecide to dream about spiders and ecide how you would like the dream to unfold.
Make an alliance with the spider.
Native Americans consider the spider "Grandmother Spider"

Please read here to learn more about this "totem"

http://wolfs_moon.tripod.com/SpiderTotem.html

The Spider:

Role: ~The Weaver~

Lesson: Balance

Element: Earth

Wind: West ~The Quest Within~

Medicine: Illusion

Sweet Dreams

Answer 5

well all i can say is maybe you felt your mother sucked the life and spirit from you as a person maybe made you feel bad and thats what spiders do suck the life from there prey so maybe thats why you associate spiders and your mother in the same category sorry hope this helps take care

Answer 6

While your laying down in bed just start thinking of something good that happened to you that day or days before and just keep thinking about it. Always think good things and concentrate on the good things and you will doze off and hopefully wont dream about those bugs.

Answer 7

You need to speak to a dream expert. Its nothing to do with any fear of them anyway it probably means that you are suffering from some sort of anxiety or fear about something..Only you can answer that ..