what do i do?

Question

I am in a relationship which at time doesn't fulfill me and i love him but I am tired of all the broken promises and no shows. he does everything for me he makes sure the bills are paid and I am well taken care of when he goes out of town but i feel trapped . i have a job but it dosent make enough for me to strike out on my own i dont have a car he takes me everywhere what do i do ? please dont be cruel or have jokes i am so depressed and unhappy

Answer 1

let see... none of your emotional needs are met, he's constantly breaks promises but he pays for everything. now don't get upset but you need the ugly truth right now, you don't have a boyfriend you have a daddy. except he doesn't meet your relationship needs. if your unhappy, it is best to leave and try and find a relationship that works. I know you love him, but if your miserable now it won't get better in the long run. you might think you have no other options but try moving in with a friends or family. remember a girl he gets with a guy for money (or because he pays all her bills) ends up earning that money several times over.

Answer 2

I think you should have a talk with him when he's perfectly free and available to talk to. That way he can listen to you wholeheartedly. It's just really unhealthy not to talk to someone about what's troubling you, especially if it's someone who's special to you.