I have a friend and she told me that she knew this guy and that this guy is like totally in love with her. They haven't met yet but they knew each other because of their Friendster accounts and they have common friends... They talk on the phone and send sweet text messages to each other, although my friend doesn't really have the same strong feelings unlike the guy. What the hell should I advise her to do??? HELP!
2007-07-15 05:04:39 · 15 answers · asked by coke 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i used to think it was impossible to find love on the internet but i have had a change of mind and heart about that. now i think and feel it is possible to find love on the internet. sounds like she knows what she wants. just let her be and enjoy what shes doing. as a friend i know ur concerned for her best interest and u dont want to see her get hurt. but y not let her enjoy her time with him? unless ur getting jealous that she is spending to much time with him. good luck
2007-07-15 05:24:09 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ happy ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her to ask the guy to give her 5 things he loves about her. Then have him explain what HE believes love is.
People all too often confuse love with lust.
Let your friend know that love is:
kind, does not envy,is not rude, is gentle and warm. Love is not just a feeling but a way of life. It's not just a sexual thing but something you feel deep in your gut.
If she isn't feeling any of this towards the young man, maybe she should step away a little or he will/might get hurt.
A friendship could be ruined because of something He may think is something.
good luck
2007-07-15 12:16:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's possible to love someone you haven't met personally, to an extent. You shouldn't be ready to marry someone you haven't met face to face though, because believe it or not people change when they're in different atmospheres.
You should tell your friend that if she doesn't have the same feelings as the guy, she needs to tell him. There's never any point in leading someone along because it just ends up in heartache and confusion. I wouldn't advise that you tell her to meet up with him because it's probably not the best idea. For all you know, it's someone who could end up being an abusive jerk - no one needs that.
Just tell her not to get into anything she's not ready for, and she should be okay.
2007-07-15 12:10:49 · answer #3 · answered by Pvt. Joker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, If you can fall for someone without meeting them in person. I would say, will make for a more stable long lasting relationship. If you can love someone before meeting them just means your not a shallow person. And looks should have no baring. Unless this other person has some terrible contagious disease.
2007-07-15 12:14:30 · answer #4 · answered by zekkmarshall 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sure it's POSSIBLE--but beware !!! There are plenty of predators out there in Cyberspace, as well as nice folks. Just let your MIND and your INSTINCT rule, before you give your heart away. MEET the person, share a meal, share thoughts IN PERSON before making any decisions. Go out with them on real dates--then judge as you would judge any relationship--with common sense !! Hope this helps.
2007-07-15 12:10:54 · answer #5 · answered by Mike 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear frend i acan just suggest u that ur friend not just start telation that guy luv him but if she really luv her then ciontinue otherwise i can b problematic to her as i 2 hav similsr kind of prob
2007-07-15 12:13:19 · answer #6 · answered by anshul s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is possible!! I fell in love with my husband over the yahoo im. The best thing that ever happen to me.
2007-07-15 12:10:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Self induced hormonal imbalances are very possible. Love is an illusion for people too pathetic too accept their in heat.
2007-07-15 12:09:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
uhm yup.. i do have, i met this guy thru text and i wasnt able to meet him because he lives in a very far place. i loved him to the point that i cried when he and his family decided to move on canada.
2007-07-15 12:11:39 · answer #9 · answered by ♥saLsa Lady♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her to meet him somewhere and her feelings is going to change because its not how shes going to expect it. right now shes all in love with him because shes wondering exactly how the person is going to be. i mean we all know how people are differnt online and in person. way different. tell her to meet him. ull never know. they can make it ;] thatll be cool
2007-07-15 12:08:08 · answer #10 · answered by luciferstatus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋