i just want to know a mothers point of view. sometimes im just too scared to ask help from my mom... i dont know why. and i also do not know why most of the time i do not understand why she acts like and why i cannot follow her rules even though in my head it says that i can, i do not know why im feeling like this.. i have so many questions in my head and i cannot answer them.. sometimes i feel scared to talk, to say what im feeling, to tell the truth...i have no idea why. and also i always tell lies, so that i could get what i want or to avoid trouble ive been trying to remove that from my system but i just cant. I dont understand whats happening to me anymore.. i need your help..
2007-07-15 04:48:07 · 5 answers · asked by carlodv88 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
it sounds like your a normal teenager. dont forget no one will love you more than your mother. thats what parents are for. i didnt understand this till i became a parent myself.
2007-07-15 04:53:23 · answer #1 · answered by sixnutfury 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was a kid my grandparents raised me and I was a bad kid too. I lied, and was bad in school and just never talked that much and never told my grandma how much i loved her. Well on my 16th b-day i woke up and found out my grandma had died that early morning. I never got to tell her I loved her and tell her I was sorry for being such a brat. Dont make the same mistake I did.
2007-07-15 11:54:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first....congrats on wanting to change yourself for the better!!! thats definitely the first step...
if it's something you feel you can eventually get a grasp on then try to set up a reward/disipline process for yourself...when you feel you have done something right then reward yourself! have that extra scoop of ice cream...if you feel that you are doing wrong...disipline yourself...don't watch tv that whole day...etc...
if it is something you feel you can't help then professional help might be necessary you can begin by looking up different mental disorders...maybe bi-polar, antisocial disorder...even borderline personality disorder...if things sound familiar to you, you could have a serious problem (that can be fixed!!) talking to a school counsler may be beneficial to you as well...or a good friends mom if you don't feel comfortable with your own...
i hope things work out for you....it sounds like you want to help yourself!
good luck!!
2007-07-15 12:08:51 · answer #3 · answered by jane d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not a mother, I am a father. I went through this when I was young, but you have to try as hard as you can to stop this. You need help and you must ask for it. If you cannot talk to your mom. Please talk to a school counselor or someone you can trust. You need counseling to get this under control or it will control the rest of your life. Please ask for help
2007-07-15 11:57:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
pay A visit to your minister
you need some help
2007-07-15 11:55:18 · answer #5 · answered by Michael M 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋