I met my boyfirned online two years ago. First we were just friends talking, then we started to like eachother a bit more but I had just broke up with my boyfriend that was friends with him so I did not make my feelings so blatant.
Then months pased and we desided to go for it. We met last year Sept but only for 2 days & this year for about 3 days and 2 nights in March. Well since day one of me and Jay going out together I have had doubts of who he said he really was so I wanted proof...ie..for me his drivers licance or passport or something like that to show me his dob. But he still hasnt :(.
When I ask him what he wants from me he can never answer me with a stright forward answer. He tells me he loves me but thats not enough! I asked him if he has told his mum about me and he says yeah I just told her "It is what it is"
What do you think that means and what do you think he wants from me? I am so fed up, I have a feeling he's lying about the way he feels for me & he's playing me.
2007-07-15 03:57:20 · 8 answers · asked by Dee 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I also think its weird how we get to meet 1 or 2 times a year and he can only spend 2 or 3 days max with me. I kind of think that's bull$***.
He hates the job I do even though I have been doing it the since/before we met.
I'm 19 and he is 23.
I really love him but I just have a feeling he is lying to me about so much, I just don't get how you can be in a relationship with someone and when you get the chance to see each other all you can do is take 2 or 3 days out of your schedule.
He also runs his own business. So I am sure that way it would be more easy to take more time off.
What do you think?
2007-07-15 04:02:29 · update #1
He probably IS playing you. In the past couple of years, you have only seen him twice? If he can't give you truthful answers or even show you his license or passport to prove how old he is, then there are probably a lot of other things he has told you that he cannot or will not prove is true. My opinion is that you should just cut off contact with him. Chances are he won't try very hard to contact you after a day or two.
"It is what it is" is something that is usually said when there is no changing whatever "it" is. In this case, you say he's your boyfriend. To him, you are probably either a friend or just someone he got to know, and for him, "it is what it is". Get rid of him and find someone you can actually spend some time with in person instead of online. Good luck.
2007-07-15 04:06:52 · answer #1 · answered by Paul L 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? I guess you could get back with him but do you really want to worry about him breaking up again with you for a different stupid reason? Don't change yourself for some boy. You both play on that EMO BLOB so why is it a big deal that you were wristbands that might look emo? I think you should get back him if you don't care if he breaks up with you again, which is likely based on the fact that he toys around with you so easily. I wouldn't suggest getting back together with him but... if you really want to give him a second chance, do it I guess.
2016-05-18 01:46:54 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well for starters go to the local police dept. and ask about him.. If he is a foreigner, email the local dept in the town where he lives. I met my husband online 9 years ago. I checked him out , and I am sure he did the same of me. If you can't get any information about him, then he is hiding from you or someone else, and lying for sure. DO not meet him again, find someone close to home.... drop him like a hot potato and it is what it is,,,, is a cheap day of sex..... nothing more........ he is a user and liar
2007-07-15 04:04:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your question is confusing..but five days of being together does not seem like a relationship to me. maybe i read this wrong.. but you are two people who communicate on line and get together to go for it...as you said. what is that? you have no relationship... i do not even know how any of you could be in love... you do not even really know each other. telling his mum about you has nothing to do with..it. that does not mean someone loves you..just because they told someone about you. it is not words... it is how you are treated. i think you are hanging on to a fantasy.. not something real.
2007-07-15 04:05:44 · answer #4 · answered by foosieboy1953 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him! he's obviously just using u 4 sex or something like that. besides its never a good idea to get involved with someone u met on the internet! Take my advice and DUMP that LOSER!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-07-15 04:03:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So this was your ex-boyfriends friend that you decided to sleep with? HAHAHAHAHAHA...GET A CLUE!!! Did you really expect him to be your knight in shining armor? Learn from your mistakes and don't ever sleep with your boyfriends friend!
2007-07-15 04:10:59 · answer #6 · answered by MysticalDream 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sweetie.....there does exist a such thing as woman's intuition......PAY ATTENTION TO IT......you know what's going on.....don't let your emotions trick your logic.
2007-07-15 04:03:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen to your intuition......PAY ATTENTION TO IT......you know what's going on.....don't let your emotions trick your logic.
2007-07-15 21:11:25 · answer #8 · answered by Lilly M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋