Does my ex love me?

Question

We split up after 3 months together and 2 weeks after this we slept together. Its now been 2 months and I met her again, and we went cinema and for dinner and a walk on the beach. I felt really nervous like it was the first time I was meeting her again. I couldnt keep my eyes of her and just wanted to be close to her. Then before I had to go home again, I told her how I felt, that I still love her and always think of her. She admitted she likes her ex as hes the first person she loved, but she was with me for longer and we had planned a future together, and done more than she did with her ex. The whole time I was telling her all this she was looking away and looked upset like it was hurting her, and when I left with my mates who picked me up to take me home, even they said she looked really upset, and when one of my mates asked her if I was her boyfriend, she looked at me then shook her head.How do I get her to admit how she feels, or to tell me why she split up with me

Answer 1

I don't think you can fall in love with someone after being with them for only 3 months. I don't think it was meant to be. maybe she is leading you on.

Answer 2

Me and my ex split up just under a year ago now, I still love her with all my heart but it seems that she just doesn't care at-all, I'd like to think otherwise. The break-up was stupid, we were both chatting on the phone one day n all of a sudden, I was being horrible n said look, we need to break up - I think in all honesty, I did this to see if she'd fight for me and that wasn't the only major reason, I'd lost my job at the time so I felt terribly low in myself and couldn't control none of my feelings. Throughout last year, I'd regretted what I did and tried hard to work things out with her again. Baring in mind, there was a 14 year age-gap between us. I'm 34 this year and to think of her now out with various other fellas ruins me. I've already served a 5 and a half jail sentence prior to the difficulties we had throughout the early summer of last year. I just cannot begin to reason why the hell we'd come into this complication. Cutting a long story short though, we were together for 14 months and we'd already had the most beautiful, loving and intimate relationship we could ever have. I think also, I was so in love with her to the point where it hurt so much. She has now filed for a 5 year restraining order on me but it scares me, before we had totally split, she told me she's always loved me and always will - now I've believed this and keep telling myself that she will soon come back coz all she wants to do is hurt me for now and punish me for all the possible pain of the break-up that I'd caused her, I want her to come back, more than anything,I know so many people who hate her because of my time inside but I'd forgive her if she forgave me because isn't that what true love is all about??

Answer 3

OK,let me get this straight,she said she was only with this ex boyfriend that she loved for a mere 3 months.The first person she loved.and ,she was with you a little longer,but,she didn't say she loved you also.You split up,Why? better remember why,because its going to happen again if you take her back.She was probably upset because her booty call is trying to get serious again.Weman love drama,they play actresses and do the roll. But,when it comes to fact they run. You better do the same.

Answer 4

What happens between two people is difficult to analyse when you only hear one side of the story. However, this girl is going out with you and she is supposedly more in love with her ex. Why is she with you and not her ex? Is she being honest with herself and you. My question to her would be "where is your heart - with me or the ex" She cannot be that confused to answer that question. Good luck with your future, I'm sure that someone out there will love you, if not this girl.

Answer 5

Give her a week then call her and let her know you need to speak with her in person. She may ask what you want to speak with her about and then tell her that you need to know what is on her mind about you two. Let her know know that you need to know about why she was upset,, but,, and I say but,, wait a few days until she calms down, one week at the latest and three days at the earliest to speak with her.

Answer 6

no

i was with her for 3 months, she was with him less than a month

but i knew her for 2 months before we went out and she told me she loved me which is when I asked her out and i knew i loved her

her ex treated her really bad, not talking to her or taking her out, not meeting up with her or anything. i gave up my best friend for her and she knows id choose her over anyone else in the world

and then just one day she told me she wants to split up, and when i asked why, until this day, she says that she does not know! but i mean she was cuddling upto me in the cinema and leaning on me jsut like she used to, and its like shes giving me mixed signals, and she doesnt know what she wants

Answer 7

this situation hurts and bad, goin thru it right now..things might be worse in my case but...in yours I would give her her space and not sleep with her, until she is willing to be your girlfriend. She probly split up with you because of her attachment to her ex which will die as soon as she gets her heart thoughly ripped out of her chest when she comes to the conclusion he has moved on. arggg you sound like a nice dude too, stupid girl.

Answer 8

Seen this before, if it looks like she's not saying what she thinks, it's cause she's not saying what she thinks. Don't fool yourself. It will only lead to some vicious heartache.

Answer 9

Pray!
The best you can do is to pray from the bottom of your heart...take good care!

Answer 10

I think she told you, but you didn't want to hear it. She likes her ex.