2007-07-14 23:01:08 · 28 answers · asked by natiki lou 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He keeps telling you he loves you because he wants to keep on having sex with you. You sound naive.
Your Truth is if he really loved you he would not be with her! Right?
Tell him you're moving on to someone who's available.
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2007-07-15 09:29:40 · answer #1 · answered by Freesumpin 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Read this very carefully: You tell him to "hit the road Buster, you have a wife: when you get a divorce, then come around"
In fact, after, if he does get a divorce, what's to keep him from marrying you and, doing the same with you? tell him to hit the road.
2007-07-14 23:31:14 · answer #2 · answered by cowboydoc 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Ask him if he would like for his wife to know that. I'm sure that his answer to that will be "no". You need to tell him to focus on his spouse and stop lusting after you. You might want to remove yourself from the situation because it will only end up getting bad for everyone involved. You might consider him to be a friend, but he clearly wants more than that.
2007-07-15 08:08:46 · answer #3 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would let him know that you wont even go there or take him serous since he is married. Does his wife even know how he feels? Maybe suggest for him and his wife to go to counseling. I wouldn't want that done to me if I were on the receiving end. Your a great person for turning down his attempt to cheat.
2007-07-14 23:08:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell him that you are not into married men. the deal is if he leaves the one he's with to be with you, he will only cheat on you too so it's really just a love drama cycle. If you were his wife you wouldn't want him doing that to you, so don't do that to her. sorry but i just believe in doing the right thing, and in your heart you know what's right.
2007-07-14 23:05:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
in the adventure that your chum would not like what you tell her then she's in basic terms searching for interest. If she's asking you what to do, you may desire to tension out that she desires to contemplate what you're saying out of love for her, and care which you do no longer want her to get harm. There are a reason he married his spouse and marriages are something you in basic terms do no longer come to a decision to circulate into and then walk out of. If she does get him divorce his spouse, what coverage does she have that he won't do the comparable factor to her whilst she has 2 little ones? If she incredibly loves him, she will have the skill to do the terrific factor for him and his kin and little ones. Thats his little ones his hurting and not in basic terms herself yet additionally his spouse. Does she incredibly must be that guy or woman who destroys the kin? needless to say there is something incorrect with the adult adult males relationship together with his spouse. And he would desire to bypass and remedy that difficulty together with his spouse and not seek for different answer by using falling in love including your chum because it in basic terms complicates his marriage and makes it even worse. In our ethical sense it incredibly is not suitable, and if I have been you i'd concepts-set the guy (as his married, older and he enable this bypass too some distance) and supply him 24 hours to admit to his spouse approximately what his been doing, if no longer you will do it. His spouse and little ones would not deserve this. She's taking care of their little ones for him. no remember what they are asserting, theyre nonetheless married. They belong to one yet another.
2016-10-21 08:39:54 · answer #6 · answered by erly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
(1) Avoid situations where this fellow has opportunitues make such inappropriate remarks -- that is, either start spending time with him only when his wife is also present. And (2) next time he brings it up, tell him you that you don't want to hear this again -- if he EVER mentions it again, you will report it to wife.
2007-07-15 00:44:56 · answer #7 · answered by kill_yr_television 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
if u like that friend u love and married him.
2007-07-14 23:33:27 · answer #8 · answered by anbu renu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him if that's what he says to wife too......and then ask him if he thinks she would be happy about him saying it to you. I'd stay clear of him.....he's going to be trouble. I think he's just looking for a hook up. You deserve better than to be the other woman......I hope you don't settle for that.
2007-07-14 23:06:04 · answer #9 · answered by wendy 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
go back to your wife. I don't date married man.
2007-07-14 23:04:00 · answer #10 · answered by littleflower 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋