my friend is moving soon and i avoided her for a while because i was really sad that shes moving but when we talk a little and when i say bye i hug her so tight like shes leaving tommrow and she says"dont worry im not going anywhere yet...." and next day i talked to her a lil bit and i was gonna hug her like as we always do but she just turned around and refused to hug me and slowly stopped talking to me after this what do you guys think about this situation?
2007-07-14 22:22:01 · 16 answers · asked by bianca 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Sometimes when people feel like they are about to lose someone they really care about, they try and create a distance between the other person by picking fights, or avoiding them. Thinking, it might make it easier to let the person go. Its very hard to say goodbye to a good friend.
As a child, whenever my friends were moving away, we fought a lot before they left! My mom always told me it was normal.
2007-07-14 22:35:49 · answer #1 · answered by hereigoagain 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I just moved away from all of my friends. It's hard. Maybe your friend is feeling upset about having to leave too as much as you are upset about it. Maybe hugging you makes it harder for her to think about leaving. Just talk to her. Ask her if you did something to hurt her feelings. You're asking the wrong people hun. Call her tomorrow and ask her what's wrong. Tell her how much you care about your friendship and that you want to fix whatever is wrong, but that you can't do it without her.
2007-07-15 05:26:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Maybe she's a bit hurt that you avoided her in the first place - why don't you straight out ask her what is wrong or if everything is ok? What's the worst that can happen? She's leaving anyway...
2007-07-15 05:25:38 · answer #3 · answered by Lula Belle 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
As far as one can tell you did not do a thing wrong! She probably just would rather not show vulnerability by not being open. It will surly pass through out time. Just relax and hang with your friends until she comes around. Its going to be OK, GOD IS LOVE!
2007-07-15 05:27:10 · answer #4 · answered by Lynnette D 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe she thought "If I hug him now I'm going to cry, and I don't want to cry"
Perhaps it was just too emotional, you should know what that's like, you felt the same because she was going.
2007-07-15 05:26:52 · answer #5 · answered by Barb Outhere 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe she is tired of ur hugs? adn the rite thing to do she nos is to move on u cant be stuck in one part of time forever and not move on
2007-07-15 05:26:33 · answer #6 · answered by jana hawks 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think shes a bit pissed off that u avoided her get her a goin away present and just say your sorry.
2007-07-15 05:27:57 · answer #7 · answered by Nevermind 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe cos she doesnt wanna leave but had no choice.. she's probably trying not to show any emotions thats why she avoids u...
2007-07-15 05:28:04 · answer #8 · answered by ginger 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2007-07-15 05:24:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
try to confront her about it....maybe you hugged her too hard.
2007-07-15 05:25:49 · answer #10 · answered by Amanda B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋