Why are no women worthy anymore?

Question

Most seem to regard their mere presence in a man's life as enugh of a gift, they act like they never have to lift a finger to please the guy.

Many more screw anything that moves then wonder why no guy wants to marry them.

Lots of women seem to love to pick fights with their men. Why would ANY sane guy want to marry any woman just to be rewarded with constant fighting about feminism or other useless topics.

Seriously, any women out there who take responsibility for their lives, do not burden men with their issues, who understand that life and love is give and take?

So if I question anything women do, I need to be rejected and get a blowup doll, huh?

Is this the new female empathy for men?

Are females looking for immoral guys to just rubber stamp them? if so, this country is worse than I thought.

Answer 1

Men do the same thing. Takes two to tango man.

Answer 2

I know many women brought up in traditional households. You know, the ones where women stay home and clean and don't like sex but do it as an obligation.
Then, there are the girls who do everything a guy asks them to do. That doesn't work out either, because then you're a slut.

Me and my husband finances are balanced equally. Well, I shouldn't say that, I actually pay more in bills then he does every month. I also pay the bills he owes for him as he never remembers to send them in. I worked significantly more then him last year and earned about the same. We currently work at the same warehouse job doing the same type of work.
I filed his taxes and handle everything in terms of paperwork having to do with the house and our jobs.
I bought the house without him when I was 22 as I have great credit and he has none. I was raised in a construction family and am a lot 'handier' then he is. I do most of the repairs around the house including any plumbing and some electrical work. Me and my little brother reroofed our house.
I do enjoy the debate. But, I like to cross examine things from every angle. He doesn't quite understand that yet. I may pick one side of an issue one time, and the polar opposite side the next. I'm not trying to argue, I'm trying to understand both sides. Yes, he does think they're useless issues. One day, I hope he'll understand that I don't care as much about the issue as I do about understanding the issue.
I am demanding when it comes to love. My husband very rarely gives in to all my demands during an average week. He is only in the mood maybe once on the weekend. But, for some reason it's okay for him to shut me down even though I'd never do that to him.

Answer 3

Read your last statement, you contradicted yourself. ......women out there who take responsibility for their lives, do not burden men with their issues,..........understand that life and love is give and take? There's your problem. There are women out there that are responsible, some too responsible. Where she does it all when the man goes to work and thinks just because eight hours out of a day entitles him to be waited on hand and foot. While everything the woman has done is just looked upon as, it better be done, know your place. Life is about give and take, if you want a good relationship look inwards first. Find out what your really looking for then go find it. But remember, respect, honesty, and common courtesy is required in all relationships. That goes for both genders.

Answer 4

This stupid consumer culture that also permeates how we relate to each other. Do you think that TV shows like "Sex and the City" or "Desperate Housewives" don't influence how women think? Society is bombarded through the media with these ideas where men are bad and women are victims and women are taking advantage of this. What is even worse is that now it has become socially aceptable. Maybe the fault is upon us the men. Women are wonderful if you know how to treat them and if you behave like a man. Don't treat them as queens it spoils them and they will actually despise you while taking everything they can from you. Women are wonderful and they want a man not a pet. What you a man must do is:
1. Get a life - women value a man that has a life and it actually makes you happier with or without a woman.
2. Learn social and personal skills - when something is not working in your life chances are you lack a skill, learn the skill you need and problem solved.
3. Meet as many women as you can - not only women but men too, you see, the more people you know the better you get at recognizing valuable from worthless women (and people in general). Also, as you get more choices you have more chances to meet a quality woman who shares your values.
There are many more things a man can do to enhance their percieved worth.
When a woman realizes that you have worth they are less prone to screw it.
What I mean is that human beings abuse of those who allow it, both men and women do this.
Petty disputes initiated by women happen because they percieve men as inferior and that they can get away with it.
When this happens what you got to do is to take control immediately and drop the girl, do it cold , do it fast. Believe me, it works.
Women are wonderful if you know what buttons to press.
I know this is easier said than done but if you want the best from life, be it a woman, a family, financial success, etc., you have to pay the price and it takes a real man to do it.

Answer 5

Perhaps you are jogging with the wrong crowd.

There are plenty of women out there who understand that life and love is give and take. I can imagine you're probably talking to all the girls with implants and bleached blonde hair or live in some rich part of town where they really don't have to do anything to please a guy. The kind of girls who adore being relentlessly fawned over and could never ever do any harm... except to the ***** next door.

I never picked a fight with my boyfriend. If we got into an argument it's simply because one of us or simultaneously both of us had a discouraging day. Living together is tough... sometimes you simply don't want to see your [wo]man.

Answer 6

I read this and my first thought was, "You don't know many women, do you?"

You might read about women, you might watch movies or the news or listen to songs about them, or maybe you know girls who play games, but you don't seem to know real women who see their lives as being worth working at. They are all over the place, but they don't make a lot of noise. They just hold jobs, care for families, and stick by their husbands, children, and friends when running out on them would be the easier thing to do.

These worthy women aren't always the pretty shiny ones that get the attention, though some are pretty and some are not. Don't be discouraged--take some time to really look around you at real women, not the cheap imitations you seem to know now.

Answer 7

Why are men no longer worthy?? Today, men act in the same manner. Many think that they are God's gift and that they should be catered to!! How many times have you packed a lunch for the woman in your life?? Do you do their laundry ??? Do you really understand the meaning of give and take?? I think NOT !! FYI : It's a two way street but, you are definitely, ONE WAY !!

Answer 8

You must have dated enough women to understand them more. They don't even get along with each other.

I had my ex girlfriend of 3 years cheat(and ran off), my friend's wife cheated, my other friend's wife cheated, and I have had numerous married women hit on me. It's just not worth it anymore.

I can't tell if things are changing to the extremes, or that my eyes are 'opening up' as I get older and around women more(more long term relationships). I know that the statistics for women's infidelity went up within 4-5 years, from 26% to 51%(men were always at 51%).

Also, about the anti-man issues: My ex one time said that she wasn't going to dye her hair anymore, because I liked it. And she doesn't have to change something to cater to me....why did she dye it to begin with? It really just doesn't make any sense to purposely do something that's the opposite, because I liked it!!!!

I think that the scientists should look into hormones, water samples, and whatever else before human life eventually comes to an end.

Answer 9

Not all women are like that. Just like not all men are dogs. I agree that love is a give and take. I treat my husband the way I want to be treated. I don't pick fights with my husband, why would I want to do that for? It doesn't make sense to me. Good luck on your search.

Answer 10

We are giving them all the rights and at best only partial responsibility. The thinking is that if they make a mistake it was because of some man. Here is an example.
The belief is that men are partialy responsible for a woman being pregnt if they trust them with birth control.
They cant even take responsibility for their own bodies.
We also gave them huge financial incentive to have no respect for the institution of marriage.
Finally, every one from Hollywood to the press portray women as people that can do anyting and do not need men. They are encourage to be in great denial of this subject.
For example they are sexualy attracted to ******* that treat them poorley. These men would never be good fathers. But it is the womans right to bed them and not be responsible for birth control in their own bodies.
They are told they can raise achil with out a father figure and they will turn out o.k. The reality is that they are puting their children at great danger.
They are told that they can do their own battles.
What they dont admit is that in a contry as big as America, you would be lucky to get one batalion of all women fire fighters. Most fire departments had to lower their standards to get some women fire fighters

Answer 11

Yes, there are plenty of us. The fact that you haven't met one doesn't really make it fair to paint all females with the same brush.

I have met my fair share of real losers of the XY variety, and I don't look down on men or think or say bad things about them. I take them on a case by case basis. Try taking women on a case by case basis, too. Trust me, it's easier for everyone when we all do that.