Ok this is a weird question but its impossible for me masturbate without looking at porn. Im 19 been single my whole life and my sex drive is pretty high. But im also religous so when i do this i feel really guilty what should i do?
2007-07-14 16:36:10 · 21 answers · asked by Bellroc 2 in Health ➔ Men's Health
Get rid of the porn and do it with out it, it takes longer though. You will always go back to the porn though trust me.
But when you get a woman it will be more exiting if you don't always look at porn.
2007-07-14 16:39:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lose the guilt: all men do it - even your pastor does it - or lies about it. It is NOT a sin. Yeah, yeah, some pastors call it Onanism as if Onan were a great sinner. Baloney. That's all that is - baloney.
It wouldn't hurt you to get out more. Meet people; learn to be comfortable around them, especially women your own age.
It may take awhile, but gradually you will find you can interact quite comfortably with the opposite sex - and before long, you'll find yourself in a loving, intimate relationship with one of 'em! And then y'won't need the porn, dude!
2007-07-14 23:43:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Masturbation is very normal and healthy. If you want to get away from the pron., try your imagination. Think of something that really turns you on. Fantasy is also healthy and I think you may find this will help and could be even more exciting for you. Your imagination is endless, you don't have to hit rewind and you have less to worry about if someone walks in on you!
(I'm not saying pron is bad. Just offering other options if you want to get away from the porn)
2007-07-14 23:49:40 · answer #3 · answered by justme 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look at porn and masturbate
there is nothing in the 10 commandments saying porn or masturbation are a sin so from the religious angle there's no reason to feel guilty.
besides masturbation is perfectly normal and healthy
2007-07-15 21:21:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop totally,when you look at woman,don't look at them as a sex object,but as a person.Otherwise,everytime you **** once,punish yourself by not doing you love doing for a day,eg. computer games,television. If even thats not possible,space out the time you ****.Evrytime u do 'it',you cant do it for another 3 days.Make it 4 the next time,then 5,then 6 and so on until it is cut off completely.If you succeed,you should have wet dreams more frequently than ever,good luck ^_^
2007-07-14 23:41:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel guilty because of your religious views, don’t do it. Because if you do, then your religious views don’t really mean a damn thing to you. Get yourself a chastity device and let your Mom hold the key. She doesn’t need to know what its for, tell her its for a bank or something.
Or accept the fact that your religion clashes with this aspect of your life and alter your views to allow it. Then kick back and wack off all you want with out the guilt.
Go to sites like pornotube and watch all you want.
Life is to short not to enjoy it, so enjoy it and don’t feel guilty about it.
2007-07-15 00:42:55 · answer #6 · answered by Brian 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yo dude,
masturbation is awesome....
i'm horny all the time too. i think it is a guy thing!!! lol
i don't jerk off to porn much, i'm 17........ so age issues, but that doesn't stop me.
actually had a cool time yesterday doin' it. very educational.....
but i don't have to jerkoff to porn.
like i jerk off in the morning, in the shower.... and in bed at night. that's guaranteed....
any bonus to this, may be porn, may be not. like i love the beach, and surfin' makes me horned, so somtimes i find a spot amongst the rocks and make my own spary. lol
do the same dude -- show god what ya got :)
keep it cu.mming,
Marcus
2007-07-15 00:12:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Porn is okay. You shouldn't feel guilty. It's natural. I look at porn and I'm a girl.
2007-07-14 23:39:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all there's nothing to be ashamed of masturbating. There's totally nothing wrong with masturbating. It actually has many health benefits. But, because of religious beliefs I understand. So if you don't want to masturbate but you want to have sex your gonna have to find yourself a girl. Good Luck
2007-07-14 23:41:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
same here, 21 yrs old never had a girlfriend, masturbate almost 2-3 times daily. I masturbate so much that only a few drops of semen comes out after I ejaculate... unless I wait a few days for my scrotum to refresh itself
2007-07-14 23:39:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋