Im 28 weeks and I always get mad really easily especially at my husband. Is anyone else going through this.
2007-07-14 16:17:40 · 15 answers · asked by rorybellows 4 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Yup, right now every little thing he does grates on my nerves. Today's list:
Wouldn't get up on time
Started the laundry late
Didn't do the dishes like he promised
The way he drives
The way he stops
The way he signals
The way he states the absolute obvious
The way he waits till he needs pants tomorrow to tell me he doesn't have any that fit.
The way he plays his video games
His addiction to Facebook
His talk about stuff he is going to do in a year (that I know will never happen)
The way he can not grasp the concept of how far 50 km is
How he has the retention span of a squirrel on acid
Having to drive past a house 3 times before he can remember what it looks like (we are currently house hunting).
The way he repeats the same story over and over again.
That's just what's off the top of my head for today. Pre-pregnancy most of this stuff I didn't notice, thought was cute or could tolerate. Out of that list I think the dishes, the laundry, the pants and the driving around in circles to look at the same house 3 times are the only things that I really have to ***** about. And I probably would have just done the dishes and laundry myself except I sprained my ankle at 36 weeks pregnant so I am not in the best of moods coupled with raging hormones makes me pretty b*tchy.
Usually (like he did today) he'll snap at me for nitpicking at him, I'll have a good cry and then just keep my mouth shut for the rest of the day. I'll start on him tomorrow again LOL. Somedays though I remember in the morning that I am predisposed to being mean so I will save it all up and just hit him with the list at night of what pissed me off, see what he thinks is hormones and what is justified and try to deal with it sanely and logically instead of with a divorce lawyer LOL.
2007-07-14 16:34:32 · answer #1 · answered by babybugs1980 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You aren't alone. I am not pregnant now, but when I was some 27 years ago, I had mood swings that would just be off the hook. I always attacked my husband because he was the closest one to me and somehow I felt safe in my relationship knowing that he would forgive me no matter what. I was able to go from a happy conversation with my sister to ready to divorce him in 20 seconds or less. It is hormones and you may have a problem with postpardom depression. If you are really concerned though, talk to your OBGYN about what is going on. Good luck! =)
2007-07-14 23:28:25 · answer #2 · answered by penelopejanepitstop 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well for my first pregnancy I was easily frustrated and I would yell at my daughters father for no reason. But for this pregnancy my sons father is saying that I am less frustrated with him compared to before I was pregnant. lol. so I am not really sure maybe it is just how the hormones affects the woman's body.
2007-07-14 23:25:58 · answer #3 · answered by liljess69692004 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i have been really bitchy lately excuse my language but it's the truth. I am currently 23 weeks pregnant and i have noticed and caught myself going off on my hubby for no reason!!! like last time my son spilled chocolate milk all over the dresser so i got what was nearest so in would not fall on the carpet and it was his work shirt! then when he came home he saw it outside and i don't know why he grabbed it and asked me what had happened to it!! and i totally went off on him like seriously!! and i felt so bad at the end i ended up apologizing!! i try not to but i can't help its our hormones that are controlling us!! lol just hang in there it will all soon be over!!! i hope! for my hubby's sake ;p
2007-07-15 00:01:33 · answer #4 · answered by *Loving my two boys* 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i can tell you i went through it with my pregnancy (my son is 10 weeks old) although im not married i practically am and i used to get SOOO mad mat my fiance. the stupidest things would piss me off. even after i had the baby i would still get mad. i guess because of the hormones. it has calmed down a lot but now i just get mad at him when he doesn't want to mess with the baby.
2007-07-14 23:21:48 · answer #5 · answered by Mom 2 Eddie- 5 yrs Ethan- 3 yrs 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
just the hormones talking.
although, if you are normally a peace maker by being quiet, pregnancy will flip it around.
when i was preggers i anounced it everytime i got upset. just pay attention to yourself, if you yell and later think that you were wrong, apologize. have a talk with your husband and doctor together so that he can hear the doc say you're more emotional at this time
2007-07-14 23:23:06 · answer #6 · answered by QTP 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Men need to be yelled at for no reason now and then. Keeps them on their toes.
I think it's a combo of heat and hormones. I found that it helps to put a cold cloth on your head and a very cold, wet cloth on your neck. Generally, that will make you feel better and less ornery.
2007-07-14 23:22:40 · answer #7 · answered by CarbonDated 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely!! Pretty much everyone does!! And the way I see it, the way your body is changing and growing and your hormones are making you nuts....if you are just yelling at him, you're letting him off easy. This is his baby too and right now you're having to do all the work....if it were reversed, you know he'd be doing the same thing!
If he's trying, though...try to give him a break. :)
2007-07-14 23:25:46 · answer #8 · answered by Jamie C 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's very common. You are extremely hormonal when you are pregnant and usually the only person you can take it out on is a spouse or a family member.
2007-07-14 23:20:43 · answer #9 · answered by Rene 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just your hormones honey! You only have twelve weeks to go and you'll get back to 'normal' sooner than you think! Hopefully he understands!
Hang in there sweetheart! I'll be praying for you!
2007-07-14 23:20:50 · answer #10 · answered by 1DayLeft 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋