I'm not saying I'm young and having sex and I'm scared I'll get pregnant. I mean I'm scared to get pregnant ever. It's not that I fear I won't be a good mother, I know I could be. What I'm afraid of is carrying a baby almost to term and losing it, or giving birth to a baby who can't live a normal life. I've had a lot of sicknesses in my life because I don't have a very good immune system and that's probably why I'm afraid of having a miscarriage. I'm also afraid of the pain. I don't know what to do to get over that, and I know I'll want children.
2007-07-14 16:16:57 · 11 answers · asked by IndiHippi 5 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
When the time is right you will lose some of your fear, believe me. Find the right partner, get your act together, and create a life out of love. Its wonderful, nothing can compare to motherhood.
Yes, geting pregnant and having kids is a big deal, and not one to be taken lightly (like so many 14yr olds do!) Yes, something can go wrong. I have a son with a disability, and I lost a baby to stillbirth. Do I still love my son, ABSOLUTLY!! wouldn;t change him!! Do I miss my baby? yes, but the pain diminishes with time. Did I still get pregnant again after all this? Yes! every pregnancy is a gamble, for most women it comes out fine in the end.
Trust in yourself, and be the best you can. Good luck!
2007-07-14 16:28:04 · answer #1 · answered by parental unit 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There's a rather just right chance you might be. You had intercourse at the proper time. When I first inspiration there was a possibility of me being pregnant I had a fairly sore again and particularly sore boobs. I didn't get super hungry or tired until about 6 weeks. The only query i've is why did you might have unprotected intercourse while you had been ovulating if now you're worried about being pregnant? You need to be aware of that unprotected intercourse leads to pregnancy, so you relatively will have to not be concerned simply take delivery of the truth that you had sex at your most fertile time of the month.
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2016-09-30 00:40:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are basic ways to improve your health and immune system through good diet & healthy suppliments. Having a baby is a big step, glad to hear some people take it seriously. The decision should be a plan between you and your partner or husband. Good luck.
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2007-07-15 07:54:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're smart to think about it carefully - too many people take it too lightly & not everyone is made or best to be a parent. I'm not going to tell you what to do, as in the end, it is your decision... however, thinking about all the risks along with the benefits is a very smart way to be... it is a life-changing event.
Good luck.
2007-07-14 16:25:10 · answer #5 · answered by Suz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, the best thing for you to do is to go see your family doctor and have him recommend a specialist for you and take those tests! Despite the fact you don't want to get pregnant now, go to the experts NOW and lay your fears to rest.
2007-07-14 16:26:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about all the positive things that would come out of a pregnancy that would outweight the negatives. Also never think of the worst case, have faith that you will have a happy healthy baby.
2007-07-14 16:22:39 · answer #7 · answered by I'm here for now 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are that afraid get on birth control and dont get pregnant. Because if you do it sounds like to me like you would be depressed throughout your pregnancy and that is not good for you or your baby. You can take anti depressants but they are not always safe. This is my personal opinion.
2007-07-14 16:22:06 · answer #8 · answered by rorybellows 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
We all go through that thought, but once you find out your pregnant all you can do is take care of your self and eat right, once your in labor all you want is your baby, you want to see it and hold it and take care of it.....being a mom ROCKS!!
2007-07-14 16:23:22 · answer #9 · answered by califababy25 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i was the same way before i got pregnant,, now that i am nothing seems to bother me i feel like i can handle anything. as far as the pain goes of course its gonna hurt but women have been doing it for centureies without medicine at least we have something for pain!!!
2007-07-14 16:23:11 · answer #10 · answered by jessica_the_rabbit2006 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋