Does this go for marriage also? I don't know...but it doesn't make any sense to me. I truly don't beleive that love should hurt.And if this applys to marriage also, where do you draw the line?
2007-07-14 15:56:56 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
cassie T- I agree with you 100%
2007-07-14 16:03:10 · update #1
Love has two faces, it can be hell, it can be heaven. Love is an emotion that can carry so much joy for you, and yet it can induce other emotion to appear in you eg hurt, jealous, hatre, revenge, lying, suspicious, mistrust, bad feeling etc etc,
SImply because you love someone, you can get hurt if that someone you love do not do what is expected by you. If it is someone you dun love, you dun even need to care about it.
And because you love someone, you are more sensitive to his/her movement, style, words, action and life, any wrong movement can lead you to saddness, jealous, hurt or even rebel. And in rebel, you want to test your love one by hurting him/her back and see how he/she react to it, it is done on purpose so as to let your partner feel the impact of being hurt, quite childish indeed, but it happen in some relationship. That is why, Love at time is hell, the culprit of offences.
Dun you heard of verse such as " You said you love me and yet you hurt me. " or such clause as fatal love. So, in an unconcious mind, some of us do hurt the one we love, all because for the sake of and in the name of Love.
2007-07-14 18:18:25 · answer #1 · answered by butterfly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a load of sh*t.
If you love someone, you do everything you can not to hurt them. Sure, it still happens once in a while, but you should hurt them less than anyone else.
Love is not supposed to be painful. It has rough points, but it's supposed to feel good.
Most people in bad relationships just accept that this is the best they can do, and so they justify it by saying love hurts. They're wrong. It's not supposed to hurt - believe me, I know.
2007-07-14 23:01:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It does hurt sometimes. Can't help but have times of feeling hurt. Not realistic to think that everything is always going to be easy and happy.
Important thing is to be able to get past the pain, and get things back on an even keel.
2007-07-14 23:07:53 · answer #3 · answered by kiwi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that we actually strive to hurt the one's we love. Most often it is done unintentionally. I honestly believe that we are hurt by a lot of different people in our lifetimes, it just tends to hurt MORE when that hurt comes from a loved one.
When you love someone, you don't expect them to hurt you. Love isn't supposed to hurt and when it does, it catches you off guard and hurts all that much more.
2007-07-14 23:11:54 · answer #4 · answered by endo_chic 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, that phrase is totally true. The reason being is that only those that love you care, those that don't love you don't care what you do one way or another because it doesn't effect them.
The phrase is referencing emotionally not physically.
If they don't care you can't hurt them emotionally, they can just walk away.
2007-07-14 23:08:31 · answer #5 · answered by unknown friend 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the saying should be "people hurt the ones who love them the most".
You will do anything to help the person you love. and that goes for friends and family.
2007-07-14 23:43:52 · answer #6 · answered by cynic 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you unintentionally hurt the ones that are closest to you because you are comfortable with them and sometimes you speak your mind more than you should.
2007-07-14 23:05:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In a true love,never happen indeed.
2007-07-14 23:13:59 · answer #8 · answered by cobrasnake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it only hurts when you care, if you don't care it wouldn't affect you either way
2007-07-17 09:13:44 · answer #9 · answered by cheri h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋