2007-07-14 14:01:22 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I pay the mortgage, my car insurance, and all of my personal expenses, he pays the other bills
2007-07-14 14:15:58 · update #1
there are properly alot more details to this question.
did he hide the money from you?
did he work for this money?
is he a spend thrift fool who will waste the money as soon as the check clears?
is the money a slush fund that is used on both of you throughout the next few months?
is this a selfish person who shares nothing?
are you sure he did not offer you any of the spoils of this cash?
what would you do with the money?
did you recieve any thing you wanted for your bday?
2007-07-15 03:22:47 · answer #1 · answered by mark t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't say what he was using the money for. Investing? Buying you a nice gift? Paying off other bills?
Can't say if you should be hurt without knowing why he didn't offer any.
2007-07-14 21:40:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I would be hurt if it was the case that he got the money and didnt share with me cause he paid all the bills, but if he just kept it to himself then yes I would be too. It shouldnt matter about your b-day, just that fact that in a marriage you should'nt keep anything from one another..... Even money.
2007-07-14 21:11:48 · answer #3 · answered by How can I help? 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well did he buy you something nice for your birthday? or took you out to dinner? if he didnt do any of those things then i understand your pain and you should feel hurt if you know that he's not saving it for anything special or has payments pending then ask him what are his plans with that extra 3000 dollars does he always share his money ?
2007-07-14 21:13:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, do you guys have a lot of debt or bills to pay? and does he bring in the main income? if that's the case then you shouldn't be too upset... but if that's not the case then I'll be kinda wondering how come he doesn't include me in it?
2007-07-14 21:11:14 · answer #5 · answered by Shelley S 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes very much so but that's the way husbands are they want everything to go in the bank.If your husband is like mine did he tell you to go out and charge something. F u c k that charge s h i t I want cash.
2007-07-14 21:15:43 · answer #6 · answered by Teenie 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you are married then everything is supposed to belong to both of you. There shouldn't be any "yours" and "mine" other than clothing and toiletries. He shouldn't have to offer you any of the money because it belongs to you too.
2007-07-15 02:44:26 · answer #7 · answered by missmuffin 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why bother being married if you are going to have seperate finances? My husband and I share our money. Everything is ours, not just his or not just mine.
2007-07-14 21:43:04 · answer #8 · answered by Twinkle 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
by your additional details sounds like you have your own accounts and don't share one. Oh well his money his checking account.
2007-07-14 21:19:22 · answer #9 · answered by mims03 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I would drop hints, if that didn't work, sorry, but I would be demanding a piece of that pie !
2007-07-14 21:20:49 · answer #10 · answered by quob 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋