2007-07-14 12:46:13 · 19 answers · asked by Page 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think its like a maze you have to work through in your mind. When you love someone you can easily be blind to so many things. Not seeing the person helps and envisioning your life without them, not clinging on to some irrational hope is a start. I'm starting to think love is a modern concept and for it to work both have to believe in it. When one doesn't and you want to let it go, you have to stop believing too.
2007-07-14 13:31:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Fall out of love, it would seem like an unlikely thing to have happen but I know from experience it does. After being with someone day in and day out with never a chance to miss one another. To the point where you start getting on each others nerves about the least little things. Eventually you just grow to the point where the relationship is still there because its what your used to and somewhat safe and you are worried you might not find someone else so you continue to stay with that person, which also causes the relationship to go dead. A remedy for this, I am not sure, I would say if anything keep the relationship interesting on both parts for you and the person your with, give each-other enough space, no matter how much you enjoy being with someone, you both still need space and time with your own individual friends.
2007-07-14 12:57:39 · answer #2 · answered by emtff115 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2015-08-23 06:10:48 · answer #3 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish I could tell you. My husband fell out of love with me. And I didn't know. I never saw the signs while we were togeher. I found out the day he left me for another woman, who he quickly married. We had 28 years together. It's been a year and I still love him deeply. It seems some can fall out of love. But for us bruised and battered hopefully time will dull that love and enable us to move on. Good luck to you. A broken heart is truly the worst kind of pain.
2007-07-14 13:57:39 · answer #4 · answered by wc2ketey 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Time... Sorry there is no real way.
Moving on, meeting new people, keeping you heart and mind open! giving yourself activities and cuting off any tipe of comunication with the other person.
I wish you the best of luck! I know exactly what your going thru. I took me a looong time to get over the one i thought was the love of my life... and thank GOD i've finaly after such a long time have met someone new.
I really truly wish you all the best!
2007-07-14 12:52:48 · answer #5 · answered by Pilsner 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
When we fall in love, we are usually at the same level in interests, way of thinking,.....we have many things in common. If one of us grows and changes and the other one doesn't, then the relationship starts to slowly disintegrate. After a while, you feel like you no longer know that person that changed. this is usually a slow process when it happens, so we don't see it coming until it's too late. You have to reevaluate your relationship because of the change.
2007-07-14 12:55:13 · answer #6 · answered by The pink panther 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
People fall out of leave because they change. Your ability to stay in love boils down to how good you are at dealing with change. I've helped many individuals conquer this dilemma in just a few short weeks of messenger consultations. I hope this helped.
David Sexton., PhD Human Relationships/Author
2007-07-14 12:59:42 · answer #7 · answered by Captain Obvious 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Stop thinking of the good times and focus on all that is bad about this person.Are his words empty with no meaning or feelings. When he touched you did you feel anything from him or was it just a touch from someone that was cold and uncaring.There are a lot of warm hearted guys out here that are full of love just waiting for someone like you to meet.
2007-07-14 13:12:59 · answer #8 · answered by Teenie 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
People fall out of love when they allow someone new make them feel good.
2007-07-14 12:51:43 · answer #9 · answered by sweetgirl 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It may sound crazy to you, but I was hung up on my ex even after she cheated on me a lot and then wanted a divorce on top of it all. She strung me along like the control freak she is, telling me that she loves me. I would tell this to friends and finally one of them said, "So! Those are just words!" Then it hit me- quit listening to what she says and pay attention to what she's doing! So, I say the same to you- how is this person treating you?
2007-07-14 12:52:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋