i'm not going to let her stay with me i love her but i'm not trying to have kids
2007-07-14 10:33:25 · 21 answers · asked by cece 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
If you are trying to say that you dont want your friend staying with you because she's a bad example and you do not want to follow in her footsteps, then you are absolutely correct in feeling that way. If she was mature enough to get pregnant and 3 times at that, then she should be mature enough to take care of those kids. You however, are still a virgin and plan to remain that way, so try to keep your distance as much as possible.
2007-07-14 10:37:06 · answer #1 · answered by kikio 6 · 6⤊ 0⤋
Your friend needs to learn how to keep her legs shut. 3 kids at 15? That is crazy!!!! I would not let her stay with you either, stay a virgin until marriage. I will say i am proud of you for still being one at 15 yrs old, most girls by that age have had sex many times. Save it for your husband, you will be much happier. This way you don't have to worry about getting pregnant and just be a kid and go on to college etc. Enjoy life as a virgin, i did.
I had many of my friends in highschool in our senior yr saying they were jealous of me because i was one still. Save it!
good job!!
2007-07-14 17:55:53 · answer #2 · answered by ~Angel Eyed Pookie~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel that she is going to set a bad example for you then i understand what you are saying a little, very little. But on the other hand, even if she did stay with you, how would you let her influence you to lose your virginity.
2007-07-14 17:39:31 · answer #3 · answered by ♫♪2 kids+1 wife=magical♪♫ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
good 4 u 4 waiting 2 have sex. i say that she's now wasted her life. now she can't enjoy the rest of her teenage years, cuz she's got a baby 2 raise. but altho she made a devestating mistake, i wouldn't say that u should cut her off altogether. u can still b her friend, just use her bad mistakes as a good lesson. this is an example of who u don't want 2 become. but if u still love her as a friend, then u should continue being her friend. :)
2007-07-15 01:57:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
3 kids 15? wow
2007-07-15 15:16:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good for you! You can still love your friend even though you feel she's made poor decisions and adopted a life that she is ill-prepared for.
I'm glad you've taken a stand to keep yourself. I can see that you have bigger dreams in mind. I hope you continue until your education is finished and you find the man of your dreams.
Be proud of yourself! Girls like you are few and far between!
2007-07-14 17:39:28 · answer #6 · answered by TX Mom 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
if you are 15 then it is not your choice as to whether someone can stay or not it is up to your parents.
just because your friend has children does not mean that you have to follow in her footsteps. stay a virgin get your education and then think about what you want to do
2007-07-14 17:38:34 · answer #7 · answered by c504play 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Do you mean stay as iin Stay your best freind. I suggest that you stay her friend if thats what you are talking about. Besides being around someone who has kids doesn't make you get pregnant and start popping babies out. If she truley is your best friend you wouldn't drop her just because she has children.
2007-07-14 17:37:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Staying a virgin can be hard when you have a negative influence around you. Your best friend hanging around may give you reasons to have sex and not having her around may be harsh on you and her, but it is best for you.
2007-07-14 18:49:02 · answer #9 · answered by chevroletgirl00 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THANX 4 DA 2 PTS..
whats the question?
2007-07-14 18:49:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋