Learn how to love yourself. Find a hobby, an interest, learn something new. Explore, analyze, and question everything. Be content with who you are and what you can do. Acquire a skill or a talent. Read everything you can. Plan your life the way you'd like it to be and then lose the list (God loves to hear your plans--it makes Him laugh) Accumulate friends and appreciate your family. And don't worry about a girlfriend for some time yet--what could you give her that you wouldn't give yourself? Keep in mind she won't like you if you don't care about yourself.
2007-07-14 05:48:08
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answered by Jess 7
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Definitely!
If you are unhappy without a girlfriend, then even if you get one, you will probably still be unhappy.
Here is what you should do. Help people! Find people who need to know that someone cares, then do something nice for them. Volunteer. Get your focus off of what you don't have and give of yourself. You will be amazed at how much happier you will feel. You will be doing something that matters. Give and it shall be given to you. If you give, God will make sure you have what you need.
With God, you can be complete even without a girlfriend. Trust God to give you the happiness that you need.
III John 1:2
Beloved, I pray that in all respects you may prosper (be complete) and be in good health, just as your sould prospers.
God wants you to be complete, so trust Him and He can give you true happiness.
Psalm 37:4
Delight yourself in the Lord; and He will give you the desires of your heart.
2007-07-14 10:21:29
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answered by Anonymous
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You are happy so far.
your imagination that you will be happy with g/f makes you unhappy ..
just in confidence ask those friends who have G/Fs , who trust you, will tell the truth how much they have to dance around and praise and pamper them. keep up the appointment. answer every doubt g/f has abt your movement.
You are save from the tiredness of waiting for g/f who will sudenly say she feels migraine or body ache..
You are lucky that your roses, chocholates and icecreams are saved. your gift vouchers are saved your travelling hassels are not there
but do not worry Till you marry enjoy all these freedom and after marriage you will have to settle the account with interest..
all the best for enjoying your loneliness.
here is a joke for your loneliness
Two gentlemen, one aged , and another young, were regular at bar , and were becoming acquaited so they preferred to sit together. both will come early and go late when the closing time will come
one day out of curiosity, senior and aged man asked the young man,'hey , what's the problem why are you here daily , ??
the young man sighed and said, 'what to do at home! there is no home! it is house, no body to take care no one to wait for , not one to love it is because I do not have wife'..
it is okay man,but tell me what about you, why you are here, you have wife , to take care and love..
the old man ,sipping the wine quickly, told, o man fortet it, it is because of the Wife only I am here. bloody *****, on see me she jumps like a lion jumping on a deer.!
2007-07-14 05:57:40
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answered by krishprud@yahoo.co.in_KISHORLAL 6
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you can't. you are a guy and that means you think about impregnating and inseminating (the only polite words that came to mind) everything that moves.... your hand is the best alternative, maybe that way men won't do any damage to anyone else (i doubt it though, it's in the nature)
if you were a woman, you would get your heart broken, get an std from your very faithful boyfriend, get knock up and left to handle the reality alone, etc etc I've seen enough to go on for ever..and you would learn the lesson and never want to even see a walking penis carrier ever again
2007-07-14 07:13:46
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answered by catharsis 4
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Happiness comes from within. Volunteer there are many people who really need a friend and you could make a difference.
2007-07-14 05:45:38
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answered by lakelover 5
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I know, life is better with a partner but you can always still take part in the things you like to do. If you rollerblade or go to the beach, pool there are always interesting people to meet or talk too, and who knows ....could lead to more.
2007-07-14 05:41:51
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answered by shellybear0925 3
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You really shouldn't depend on other people to make you happy, or you will always be let down anyways. You have to learn to be happy with yourself first.
2007-07-14 05:40:53
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answered by # 4 due in September! 2
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of course! You don't need love to be happy. Find out what you like and do it. Make friends and hang out. Do something with your life!
2007-07-14 11:03:28
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answered by Nic O 3
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Sure there is!
First off enjoy your freedom & just have fun.
Set aside your personal goals and do what u have fun with, sports, friends, work, school, family.ect...
Then when u least expect it, the write gal will come along & it will be worth the wait.
Have fun & enjoy life to the max!
2007-07-14 05:45:38
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answered by pepe 1
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Find ways to enjoy your own company. The more self-sufficient you become the more likely a wonderful young woman will find you irresistible.
2007-07-14 05:54:14
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answered by Peggy B 2
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