well 5weeks ago i tried for a baby at age 16 i know who cares.my mom dosen't mind.and well i just would like to announce i am 7weeks pregnat!
2007-07-14 05:00:55 · 22 answers · asked by domenicathesims2player 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
sorry i meant 5WEEKS PREGNAT!
2007-07-14 05:06:03 · update #1
You are pretty selfish to bring a child into the world when you are just a kid yourself.
You and your child are in a world of hurt, I feel sorry for all of you.
2007-07-14 05:06:11 · answer #1 · answered by Betrayed and Insane 5 · 6⤊ 3⤋
Heres a few questions for you: Do you have a job? Does the father of the child have a job? Do you plan on finishing school? Do you have your own place or will you have your own place by the time the baby comes? Do you not care about having no worries or cares until you finish school?
I can't really judge you since I was 15 when I got pregnant, but my husband had a very good job and his own place - I took extra classes to graduate high school just a few months after my sons were born. I had no problem giving up the freedom to go out whenever I wanted because my friends and I usually hung out at my house so that wasn't an issue. I was very very very lucky. I know too many teen moms who have no job, no father in their kids life and live at home with nagging and judgemental parents.
2007-07-14 12:09:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 1⤋
Let me say... the best thing you can do for your baby is to LEARN. Please stay in school.
You may think you know what you are geting into, but you DON'T.
Babies are more than eye-candy. They are more that a prize, or a trophy.
They take patience, and nurturing, and money, and unselfishness on the part of the parent. No matter how much you WANT this baby, you will find out that the BABY's NEEDS outweigh any selfish DESIRE your 16-year-old mind conceives.
Everyone on this answer page has the right to say what they wish... we will all probably end up paying for this BABY, or for you, the MOTHER in our taxes.
LEARN. STAY IN SCHOOL. GET A JOB.
You made your bed, and now you must lie in it.
2007-07-14 12:18:19 · answer #3 · answered by T G 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Why do you want a baby at 16? You still have your whole life ahead of you and you still have to finish school. But if you and your mom are ok with this then i guess congrats. I just hope you know what the responsibilities are when it comes to rasieing a child. That child will depend on you till it is 18 years old. That means 18 years of no longer putting yourself first.18 years of buying clothes and food and paying bills and drs appointments. And trust me honey, yeah I know your mom is there right now, but you have to realize that eventually you will have to do this yourself. You cant rely on your mother to e there to pick up the pieces all the time. So I hope you are prepared to live with this decision you have made. Yes babies are a blessing, but they dont stay babies forever. Wait till you cant sleep all night long because your child is sick with the flu and puking everywhere. Or when they start teething and nothing soothes them. Trust me I have been there I have four of them ranging from the ages of 7,4,2,and 6mnths. I hope you have fun and really know what you are up for.
2007-07-14 12:09:56 · answer #4 · answered by Kandice R 1 · 5⤊ 1⤋
i had a kid at 17....i was with a guy i thought i loved and wanted a baby..dont get me wrong i dont regret my son...but my life changed so much...if i had it to do over again i would have waited....u still have alot of life to live for urself and now its not about u anymore..i hope u r not a selfish person who thinks i can take my kid to my moms when i want to go out...it doesnt work like that.. u should have waited. because not many dad hang around at that age...its easier for them to realize i can go on with my life and do the things they always wanted to do...any man knows its the hardest thing in the world for a mother to leave the child.....u had so many other things to think about then having a baby...school?job? things u enjoy? now its goin to be hard to do any of it... it takes a strong person to continue with school and making something of themselves after they have a baby and alot of women have done it...but i get u just wanted to have a baby cause they r cute..maybe wanted to trap someone i dunno....but i wish the best for u and the baby! and why in the world are we telling u this and ur mom is ok with a baby????????"?:????????????????????
2007-07-14 12:14:06 · answer #5 · answered by misty p 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well I would say that I'm sorry to hear that. Your so young and you need to finish school. Its going to be really hard when your pregnant and even more when you have a child to take care of. And what kind of a mother do you have who says that she doesnt mind that your trying to have a baby. If you were my child I would put you in councling and obviously you are lacking something that your wanting attention for!
2007-07-14 12:11:19 · answer #6 · answered by proudmommy25 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
You are 16 and preggers? What is wrong with the world???
That is just not right or very responsible on your part. Oh well, enjoy the life you make for yourself, but no congratulations are in order, only confused sympathy
Old Guy
2007-07-14 12:40:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Actually, the math was right the first time. Pregnancy is counted from the first day of your last period, which is about 2 weeks before ovulation. So if she got pregnant 5 weeks, ago, she WOULD actually be 7 weeks pregnant.
And yes, it sounds very silly to try for a baby at 16, but you're already pregnant so you might as well make the best of it...negative comments aren't going to help. And who cares if you buy designer baby clothes or not? Jeeze, some people's priorities are whacked. Good luck with your baby!
2007-07-14 12:16:28 · answer #8 · answered by grayhare 6 · 1⤊ 4⤋
I hope you have a good job, I personally are sick and tired of this happening and people making a career out of welfare. I bust my butt to raise my child who I had at age 24, after I was married and had a good job.. You kids don't relize that babies are not a toy..
2007-07-14 12:29:35 · answer #9 · answered by Holly 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would hope that your mom DOES care as it will most likely be HER who is raising this child. I was 30 (and married) when I had my first child and I struggled. How do you plan to do it at 16. You're still a baby yourself.
2007-07-14 12:18:06 · answer #10 · answered by Jamie-Ann 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
I'm not sure you realize what you are getting in to!! May I ask why you would want a baby at your young age?
///She could have had unprotected sex before five weeks guys. People have unprotected sex all the time without "trying" and get pregnant.
2007-07-14 12:13:18 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋