We have been together since 10th grade she has been my old true love and first and only sex partner. We are going to therpy, but if she admits it what should I do?
2007-07-14 00:31:10 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Get revenge...aka get even.
=] Good Luck!
2007-07-14 00:41:28 · answer #1 · answered by LoveDoesn'tLoveForever</3 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
The fact that you are going to therapy indicates to me that there are probably other issues in your relationship besides a suspected infidelity with another man. I think you are moving in the right direction to identify your problems with the assistance of a marriage therapist to determine what the real issues are in your relationship. You've invested a lot of time in your relationship starting before you married; two children are involved; so you have a family. If there is admission of infidelity, there is a underlying reason for the occurrence. Work with the therapist to determine what your issues and her issues are. Determine if you can work the issues out and get beyond this rough point in the marriage before you consider divorce and the eventual break up of yor family.
2007-07-14 00:48:02 · answer #2 · answered by Lady D 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her and that therapist they've both lost their damn minds if they think you are going to tolerate cheating and keep a cheating spouse around. It ain't gonna happpen, not in this life time.
2007-07-14 00:54:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
an affair is not the illness, only a symptom. there is something missing in her life. be kind to her and try to be there for her every need
2007-07-14 00:53:01 · answer #4 · answered by txcatwoman 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she would have to admit it to resolve it, if she kept it inside its still there and not resolved. divorce should only occur at the last resort, when she would show no remorse, and not be accountable for it.
2007-07-14 00:37:19 · answer #5 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that can only be your call. I myself would be taking the kids and saying "have a good life with the old fart!"
2007-07-17 01:16:15 · answer #6 · answered by cheri h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i could not be with someone if they choose to have their lis and more on someone else but trys to tell me that they love me.some people can over look that.
2007-07-14 00:39:26 · answer #7 · answered by marilynfsmgm 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself will you ever trust her again. If not then splitting up is the only answer.
2007-07-14 00:35:17 · answer #8 · answered by Del Piero 10 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If she cheated on you I'd say.....'bye bye *****'. And then go find someone with a heart and soul to spend your time with.
2007-07-14 00:54:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Certainly not.
2007-07-14 01:31:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋