if your boyfriend cheated on you what would you do?
2007-07-13 23:24:41 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
leave him because every day i would reseny him and hate him and never be able to trust him i would feel uncomfortable with him touching me or making out with him,and knowing he cheated means i wasnt enough for him and i wasnt making him happy
2007-07-13 23:30:14 · answer #1 · answered by treatau 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I always told myself that if my guy ever cheated on me I would drop him so fast ... but then I met my husband ... and although he has never cheated on me, I don't know if I would split up with him if he cheated (once) I can't imagine living my life without him in it. I think I would try to work things out. He would have to be VERY sorry, he would have to realize that he lost all my trust in him and earning it back would take lots of time and that he would have some MAJOR kissing up to do and I think I would want to know WHY he would cheat on me and promise that if he ever felt that way again, that we would talk it out. AND if he cheated a second time, I think then his *** would be to the curb so quick.
But you have to ask yourself, if your relationship is worth salvaging and your boyfriend is remorseful, then maybe its worth working through ... but if not, then don't torment yourself with the pain that working through something like that would create. AND no matter what you decide to to, DO NOT let this guys mistake make you lose confidence in yourself or your worth ... and don't let him make you become a "repeat victim" of cheating. Good Luck and I am sorry. *HUGS*
2007-07-14 06:40:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
trust me it's not worth everytime you know your not around him, you have on your mind if his cheating or not. I don't mean to be judgemental but, once a man cheat on you your in for a ride of drama. A man is not going to stop until they get ready. For some until all the temtation of a women disappear and you know that won't happen.
2007-07-14 06:30:18 · answer #3 · answered by Promise 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Same as if agirl cheats.
Cheat once. Can change.
Cheat twice always a cheat and gets dumped on the spot.
2007-07-14 06:46:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was in the news in Jan. Women are more likely to cheat.
2007-07-14 06:30:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My girlfriend cheated on me and I dumped her on the spot without even listening to an explanation. :) (I know it said boyfriend but whatever)
2007-07-14 06:27:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Know what, if my boyfriend cheats and i'd find out, he'd better not show up again or i will skin him alive and i mean it.
2007-07-14 06:30:49 · answer #7 · answered by attyjudz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him if he cheated and you saw it with our own eyes don't just becouse someone saw him or whatever ask him outright and if you know for sure then why stay with him if he's already cheated whose to say he woun't do it again? a leapord can't change it's spots!!!
2007-07-14 06:36:00 · answer #8 · answered by zee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cheat on him right in front of his face or set it up so that he see's you making out with another guy and when he says why did you cheat on me say "well you did it too" and if hasn't dumped you by then you can freely dump himj
2007-07-14 06:31:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I wished him the best of luck in his new relationship, and told him I really never wanted to hear from him, or see him ever again.
Then I never accepted any communications from him ever again.
2007-07-14 06:33:05 · answer #10 · answered by Kaia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋