get back together officially. so should i tell him right away or just like doge his efforts? lol. when we dated before becoming bf/gf i didnt sleep with him then only when we were bf/gf. so i want us to get our title back officially before i sleep with him. things with him were great when we were dating but like once we became bf/gf we fought a lot so i understand his hesitation.
2007-07-13 20:14:10 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
QUESTION: DO I TELL HIM RIGHT AWAY I WONT SLEEP WITH HIM UNLESS WERE BF/GF OR DO I JUST SHOW HIM WITH MY ACTIONS?
2007-07-13 20:33:45 · update #1
he wants to get back together but no label. i want to get back together but with a label.
2007-07-13 20:38:12 · update #2
im thinking about 2 weeks then i should mention it lol. about right he needs to see theres stuff he misses out on when hes not my bf. witholding sex might not be the best option because maybe hell just say it because of that. plus we both equally enjoy our s** life. i know that he wants to be back together but i feel that i need to show him that he gets more by being exclusive. telling him wont do the trick. i need to show him in actions but im not sure how to do it.
2007-07-13 20:50:06 · update #3
Yes, you should wait! If you rush into sex with him, he will have no respect for you and the relationship might not last. But if you wait, he will have more respect and hopefully things will get better. It's all about self respect too. If you respect yourself then he will respect you..so dont rush in to that yet until you know he is for reall and the relationship is back on track!
2007-07-13 20:19:16 · answer #1 · answered by smartgirl 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
either you are together or you are not, there is no kind of. the label bf/gf means absolutely nothing. if he is only seeing you then you are his gf. don't play games and hold back anything - you have already had sex with him anyway. this a way to gain control and usually backfires.
2007-07-14 08:47:16 · answer #2 · answered by brandi 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I THINK U SHOULD TELL EM HOW U FEEL ABOUT ALL DIS HOPE U GUYS CAN WORK THINGS OUT!!
2007-07-14 03:20:11 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
actually i think thats a good idea. if he truly loves you then he can live with it.
2007-07-14 03:21:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, it depends...What does sort of back together mean?...Either you are back together or you're not...
2007-07-14 03:59:13 · answer #5 · answered by Terry C. 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋