2007-07-13 19:53:56 · 16 answers · asked by reba708 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
None. But if he marries her, he'll be lucky if she doesn't resemble a sack of oats, bodily, and a prune, facially, LONG before he does, and he might be tempted to infidelity. Which would be bad, in their own ways, for BOTH of them.
It's like the bumper sticker says, "Men age like wine, women age like milk." SADLY, that's too often true. It's just the breaks of nature. Far from the majority of women have genes like those of Goldie Hawn, and a relative handful of other notable, still-young-looking 60+ females.
Best bet -- seek someone closer to one's own age, if going for the long haul. But for booty calls and hookups, age differences are meaningless. In that case, GO 4 it!
2007-07-13 20:05:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I don't think it's that bad. Men mature slower than women, and you're 18 not 16, yes those 2 years can make a difference in maturity. As long as you are at least 18, you are allowed to make your own decisions, and if the people you know are ok with it, it means they have felt this guy out and he has their approval, which you can most likely trust. A ten year age difference is probably about the normal limit, so you are fine :) If you love him good luck to you both, don't listen to any nay-sayers. Think, when youre 35, he'll be 45 and then it will seem like NO difference at all
2016-05-17 08:46:58 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing. If he wants kids that would be a problem. at 48 you should be done raising babies. 28 year old still wet behind ears, 49 year old half way to 100 do u really think 28 at 49 wants to take care of a 70 year old woman. He will looking for younger meat.
2007-07-13 20:01:24 · answer #3 · answered by leeniegirl 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well right now probably none.. then the time will come when you really don't have very much in common..
a few years is not that bad either way..
but 21 years difference is really a big deal especially as you both age.. in time you will probably want someone your own age or younger.. This happens with both sexes who go out with another much older...the excitement fades, the older partner starts showing their age, the aches and pains begin..
then you realize its just not as much fun anymore..
then you just might end up being her caregiver ..
If you can say none of this matters go for it..
But if you hesitate one bit I would say enjoy it now but don't make it long term for your own sake..
Good Luck
2007-07-13 20:02:41 · answer #4 · answered by Rebel 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Young girls hitting on young man to try and steal him away. Young girls may get jealous and see it as a challenge.
Maybe some of your friends and family teasing you.
Maybe strangers might think she is the mother of the guy. BUT if she takes good care of herself and is young looking, not so much a problem.
2007-07-13 19:57:17 · answer #5 · answered by Lil Blousou 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Nothing but a good learning lesson
Boy go help stella get her groove back
2007-07-13 19:57:16 · answer #6 · answered by justusmiangel 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Nothing that doesn't come with any relationship. Go for it and make the best of it.
2007-07-13 20:13:45 · answer #7 · answered by Iron What? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
watch the NBC show "Age of Love" on Monday nights and form your own opinion.
2007-07-13 19:58:17 · answer #8 · answered by jamaicabound191 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Struggle for power.
2007-07-13 22:10:12 · answer #9 · answered by P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh yes you r having a cool idea u should go for it n best of luck
2007-07-13 20:01:40 · answer #10 · answered by dharti 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋