We've been together for 1.5 now... we love each other super much! But lately we've been fighting a lot and i mean it... After our fights he always tries to make it better while i get all stubborn. He says i get mad for everything and that i used to be sweet all the time before,but not anymore... I feel like he is alway trying to command and change me for the way he thinks i should be. I do feel like i cause all our fihts,but cant help it,he annoys me so much sometimes. And then he gets so frustrated and maybe even wants to brake up.. I feel the same... But i wanna be with him so much,we love each other a lot. May all this mean we are not right for each other??
2007-07-13 19:53:24 · 6 answers · asked by Woman 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
my sister wen through this and she is divorced now..but the problem was the both of them and he wasn't willing to change some things and she was..you can prevent that it is OK to fight sometimes its healthy for your relationship..but if it gets to bad i would sit him down and talk about the things you fight about and tell him you are willing to change things if he is and start working on it day by day just take it slow dont try to fix everything in one day it takes time..that pretty much all you can do..
--hope i helped
god bless
2007-07-13 20:05:34 · answer #1 · answered by pink_love23 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No this does not mean you are wrong for each other. I was with my boyfriend a year and all was good; no fights at all. However right after that, we started to have little fights. Then it grew to fighting everyday. A year and a half later we were married. Fights are VITAL to a healthy relationship. They let you get to know a person on a deeper and more honest level. After you get all the small fights out of the way you realize you know that person alot better. Maybe then you will decide if you are righ or wrong for each other.
My advice is when you do fight, keep your voices down, do not try to talk over each othersay everything you have to say then so it wont be brought up again, and listen to the other person. Maybe you are too stuborn when he tries to appologize and fix it. Or maybe he thinks he can do whatever he wants and fix it all with a meaningless apology. As long as you two still have respect for each other and your feelings. Once a fight is over, it's over. Do not keep bringing up past arguements. My hubby and I made a pact a long time ago to not go to sleep still mad at each other. In 3 years we have broken that maybe 3 times. Remember he is human like you and you both will be making many mistakes in your relationship. As long as you learn from them you will be ok.
2007-07-13 20:20:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
some people have to clash to be together.. it may be your personalities..
My boyfriend and I NEVER argue.. yes we have gotten in small disagreements but we have never argued. We are not the type of people who like arguments.
When you feel an argument arising, try to drop it.. give him a kiss or something. Most of the times, arguments are over petty stuff.
2007-07-13 19:58:18 · answer #3 · answered by Mami 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you guys should take a little break of being with each other and see what happens.
2007-07-13 20:07:54 · answer #4 · answered by delta_922002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dn't belong together.
2007-07-13 19:57:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its you.
2007-07-13 19:56:03 · answer #6 · answered by nobudE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋