why do people you trust tell everyone your secret?

Question

ok so i was friends with this girl and i used to trust her with anything. well i told her something that i meant for only her to her. the next thing i know, her whole family knows, and alot of her friends know. why did she backstab me in the back when we were such close friends? i just dont get it. im no longer friends with her and will not be friends with her.

to loryn w. i did pick the wrong friends. yall are nuthin but a bunch of 2 face b*****s. i told yall somthin that needed to stay a secret and yall go behind my back and tell the world! have a nice life cuz im done with both of yall! dont talk, call or text me cuz im never gonna talk to yall.

to randa m. i told u im done with u so y the f.u*k u keep talkin to me!?! y dont u go get a f***in life!

Answer 1

I think you made the right choice obviously she is not one to trust. Maybe never in her life has someone misused her trust so she doesnt see the big deal or she just didnt appreciate your friendship. My advice is move on good luck because now a days its very hard to trust anyone. Just keep your guard up until someone really proves themselves. Just thank that you found out her true colors now instead of later on in your life when you would have really needed her and she wouldnt have been there for you. Good Luck and Be Strong

Answer 2

People love to back stab and talk about each other.
I have dated the same person for 5 yrs, and I believed early in our relationship we would be married eventually, so I shared some pretty intimate things with him about my life. I never expected him to tell his whole family, but he did.
I think he just needed something juicy to talk about and it made excellent conversation and got him some attention from his adult kids who otherwise never pay attention to him at all.
I guess it was a lesson learned. I'll never tell him anything personal about me again....and as far as marrying this big mouth. I dont think so. I am just worried the personal things I told him will get back to my adult kids.

Answer 3

Youre right not to trust her but it doesnt mean you cant forgive whats in the past. She is not trustworthy but if you see her it doesnt mean you can't say "hi". Anyway becarefull who you trust. People are youre best friend one day and youre enemy the next thats just the way it works. Nobody knows how to be a true friend these days my apologies to you.
Yours Truly, Ruth

Answer 4

Cause part of being humans is making mistakes and you just made the mistake in trusting her. She doesn't deserve your friendship a secret must be kept at all costs even if the friendship ends a secret is still a secret.

Answer 5

I have a friend that I told a secret too and they told some other people. This is wrong. What I have learned is to keep everything to yourself. Talk too your dog he want tell anyone

Answer 6

Andrew, I didn't mean to backstab you. I tell my parents everything. And NONE of my friends knew about! only loryn, which you were the one to tell her before you ever told me. It's not like my parents would tell anyone anyways. They don't even care!

Answer 7

she's a girl
is she talkative?
if so thats were you went wrong some girls will say anything to start a juice conversation

just try to forgive and forget
but if it still hurts then get some dirt on her and stab her in the back

Answer 8

Because you're not picking the right friends to trust.

Answer 9

its not that u chose the wrong friends, but that maybe it. but what u chose to tell her was something important. i don't care if u hate me, or her, we were only trying to look out for you and ur health.
its fine that u think that we are bitches cause all u'll ever be is a dick. and i will have a nice life with out u!

Answer 10

my friend never did that pick ur friends better kid