What if your crush has a girlfriend or boyfriend in a nuther country...what would you do?

Question

Thrusday night my crush and I where hanging like we usley do and we where talking and he told me he had something that he really needed to tell me. He told me that he has a girlfriend in Korea that's where he's from but he moved over here to the USA 2 years ago to work and he hasn't seen her in almost 3 years since he moved here he told me that he talked to her every day untill 4 months ago and that's when him and I met. He told me that he had the chance to go back home to see her for his vaccation but he stayed over here. I was shocked and kinda hurt that he didn't tell me before becasue I don't like to be lied too. He told me that in 3 years she will be moveing over here for good. I asked him if he planned on telling her about me or just keeping it quite and he said that he was going to tell her that he met me but the thing is he said he still has feelings for her, then I felt really bad. The good thing is nothing has happend between him and I the bad thing is now I don't know what

to do becasue im not the kind of woman who move's in on somone elses boyfriend. But he says he wants to be with me. And today I stopped by to see my best friend at her job and he came walking out of his job and called me over to him. He works next door and asked me him and I where ok with each other becasue I kinda walked out on him after he told me the truth. He told me today he want's to be with me and he's going to break up with her should I be with him or see how things go? What should I do

Answer 1

depends on him i guess...i think he likes u...coz he didn't go 2 see her when he had chnce..bst way is 2 tell him tat how much u lyk him....n in d end watever happens....atleast u conveyed yr feelings 2 him..

Answer 2

Ha! I live in Korea right now, so I can tell yu all about how many Korean guys' minds work, or rather don't work. Watch out! Many times, the foreign girl is someone they like to toy with. He will probably end up going back to Korea and getting back with the Korean girl. Especially if that is what mommy and daddy expect him to do.

Answer 3

Think one way! if he moves back to korea then he will break up with u and find the old love. If u like or love someone how far they are it doesnt matter. In love first thing is trust. And he came here trying to break up with a girl in korea, but she will be in his heart not u. So please take decision think and then move on!

Answer 4

Men with women, whether they are wives, girlfriends, or women who his parents have chosen for him to marry, are a serious danger zone. You cannot verify whether they have factually broken up with the original woman, or not. If his parents want him to marry her, it is VERY unlikely he will defy that. That is not the custom in Asian and Near Eastern cultures. It not that it can't happen, just that it's not very likely. Some foreign men are looking for the fast road to citizenship (marriage) and as soon as they have qualified for it (2 years last time I heard) they are GONE. Often without even divorcing or child care arrangements.

Answer 5

I have to admit that I am in two minds in this subject. In one hand I appaud you for your good lack (I always was a admiror of Romeo and Juliet).In the other hand I cannot still a tiny voice inside my head which says that these kind of relationships cannot last. my best wishes to you!

Answer 6

I haven't read the detail. No need! If your partner has someone else in another country then walk away!

Answer 7

What can you do if he has feelings for the other girl,so,just be his friend and avoid hanging out with him.

Answer 8

a nuther?

usley?

You're killing me.

Answer 9

see if they are faithful to them or not
lol