my ex and i broke up he calls me every night when his new girl friend is asleep and asks me to talk him through masturbation..should i stop, is this just freaky?
2007-07-13 17:42:06 · 58 answers · asked by Bad lil good chick 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
1st of all i left him. i donot want him back..
2007-07-13 17:48:25 · update #1
I cant realy say anything to this becuase I do the same thing. But if you dont have a problem with it, why stop? But if you have a problem with it, then tell him you do and stop.
2007-07-13 17:48:00 · answer #1 · answered by Brittney B 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
besides being freaky it is just plain wrong and immoral. What if he was doing that with another ex when you and him were together,,,it is not very fair to his current girlfriend for you to be helping him with his sexual pleasures, that should now be her job. I think he is betraying her and i would try putting myself in her place and see how you would feel if the roles were reversed. You 2 obviously still have an emotional connection which can also be an emotional affair which in turns is just as bad as a physical one..do the right hting and stop and if he comtinue to ask for it, let his new girlfriend in on the issue, thats only fair to her from one woman to another....think about why you do that for him..can you not let him go?? are you jealous of his new girlfriend??. are you trying to hang on to him in this small way???.i would just say stop and move on with your life in a positive moral way...
2007-07-13 17:48:46 · answer #2 · answered by ilovedenverbroncos 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm...yes you should stop. This might mean ur ex still has feelings for you..or it could mean that all along he liked what you did in the bedroom. Try to think about what his gf would feel like if she knew. How would u feel if she found out? You two obviously broke up for a reason, i think that the line between friends and more than friends should be clearly set.
2007-07-13 17:46:50 · answer #3 · answered by Megan J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OmG. Why are you going to his house in the first place, wow. Especially that hes your ex, and his girlfriend is in his house while you helping him masturbate. If I was in your position and he called me Id teach him a lesson and teach him how to respect me. The best advice i could give you is if hes calling you for this kind of stuff while hes in a relationship with another girl is to forget bout him. Get a new man that will know how to respect you!
2007-07-13 17:47:54 · answer #4 · answered by blastbabyx3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should stop for mainly two reasons; 1) You broke up with him, so you shouldn't be helping him do things like that ESPECIALLY since you don't want him back. And 2) He does have a gf and if she found out, then you would just be getting yourself in trouble for something that you could totally avoid.
2007-07-13 17:53:15 · answer #5 · answered by Alex 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if it bothers you, stop, if you enjoy it, then keep doing it!
Personally if my ex boyfriend, who had a new girlfriend asked him to talk him through masturbation I would tell him to wake his girlfriend and get her to do it, because I am no longer his girlfriend so it's not my responsibility!
2007-07-13 17:49:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think he is clearly letting you know that he thinks very little of you as a person...
He obviously only thinks you are good enough for that since he chooses to stay with g/f and not you..so if you're ok with that then keep doing it.
2007-07-13 17:47:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-01 14:04:06 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SICKO ! for goodness sake ya broke up ! tell him to naff off and get a life preferably not with you he has no respect for his partners asking you to help him masturbate while his current girlfriend is asleep ? realy realy sick !
2007-07-13 17:45:44 · answer #9 · answered by cormucus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's very freaky. Imagine if his girlfriend found out. Of course she wouldn't be ok with it, that's why he does it while she's sleeping. Also, why would you let him use you like that? You're not good enough to be his significant other, you're not good enough to be sleeping in his bed, but he feels you're good enough to sneak out of bed with his girlfriend to get some kinky phone sex. Get rid of him, tell him he's going to have to learn how to jerk his own chain from now on.
2007-07-13 17:45:34 · answer #10 · answered by daeraelle 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋