okay... this kid is stalker material... but I didnt know it when we went out. But I realised it and I broke up with him. I did the whole "Lets be Friends" thing, and I really did wanna stay friends. Well I told one of my friends about my new boyfriend... and he found out, and called me about it. I told him "It's none of your buisness" (I was polite about it) and he hung up on me. I texted him saying "Yeah I do have a boyfriend, but honestly it's none of your buisness."
and he texted me back saying "I dont wanna be your friend anymore" and I was alot nicer to him than most people would be to their crazy Ex-boyfriend's. I wanna say "Grow up!!!" because (excuse my french) he's being a pus.sy. What should I do?
2007-07-13 17:34:40 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he can't accept being friends, then maybe it is best that you break off contact with him.
2007-07-13 17:39:14 · answer #1 · answered by January 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hold on please! I can understand your situation. Legally Logically you are 200% right and what you did is right.
Please understand, there are different kind of people, some can say sorry and some wanted to say sorry but they can not because they are shy or have a pride.
Your ex friend was your friend and you had good time even a single minute. Therefore, if he say something, do something let him say, tell him several times you have found some one else so, it is not good for him to follow you. He btter try to find someone and then you four could be together and enjoy more. Isn't it a great idea?
I know your ex bf seems a diffuclt type just imagine what if he feels lonely without you and can not express to you?
I believe Love, patience, kindness, forgiveness is the best thing.
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2007-07-13 17:55:21 · answer #2 · answered by Ari 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes its hard to be real nice to someone who is not mature enough to handle just being friends. when your still friendly to someone who still cares for you, it may make them think that they still have a chance and that your just needing a break or something. you really may want to just be friends but it hard to just break up and not have some of the same old habits with each other which may be Miss read as still caring in that way. know this from experience. with out knowing it you may be making him feel like you still feel that way for him. Break it off all the way and maybe later you can be friends after time passes good luck
2007-07-13 17:47:58 · answer #3 · answered by vicky l 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You cant be friends with an x. He obviously still has a thing for you and it's not fair to string him along. I say let the guy be and leave him alone.
2007-07-13 17:38:48 · answer #4 · answered by monkey 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ignore him. You still have long life to live. So if u dont like or love ur EX just say u r done and doesnt want to talk him.
2007-07-13 17:39:44 · answer #5 · answered by Moh 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get on with your life. Have nothing to do with him. If he's a problem, deal with him assertively and consistently. If he doesn't stop, time for the cops.
2007-07-13 17:38:53 · answer #6 · answered by Net Rider 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋