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Theres this guy, and we like a million things in common. We were friends, but now he's got a girlfriend who really hates me, so we don't hang out much anymore. When we do hang out its awesome until she finds out, even though we're just friends and nothing would ever happen between us cause I really like his best friend. Should I stop hanging out with him until they break up, just so it stops causing problems, or should I continue to hang out with him like always and not care about how pissed off it makes his girlfriend?

2007-07-13 17:20:33 · 3 answers · asked by slipknot_is_wicked 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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Ask him how he wants to handle it but don't be used as a lever for him to extract more from his girlfriend that she's comfortable giving. Yeah, she hates you and if the roles were reversed and you felt the other gal was a threat, you'd hate her too. I HATE really jealous women but I also believe that it's not smart to bait her. He's hers for now and any other decent looking women are gonna get the evil eye so don't put any of you in that situation. She takes priority and if there's conflict, by my lights it's your job to back off.

2007-07-13 17:31:23 · answer #1 · answered by Net Rider 3 · 0 0

I would suggest you dont have to make a decision on this. Leave it to you Best Friend. Let him Decide on what can be done to solve this problem.

2007-07-14 00:24:51 · answer #2 · answered by its me 2 · 0 0

It's obvious that you like one another BUT....if he was YOUR boyfriend, would you want him hanging with HER behind YOUR back? Just a thought. It seems to me, that if he would do that to her, he'd do it to you?

2007-07-15 20:17:12 · answer #3 · answered by Deb 5 · 0 0

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