i dont think i love him anymore i dont wanna chill with him or have sex with him i just like having him around he drives me around and stuff and just having him around im and sexy and i can have lots of guys that wanna chill and date what should i do
2007-07-13 16:46:01 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you want to break up with him, do it. Face to face, honestly, and simply. Don't drag it out and don't put him down. Just get it overwith and move on.
2007-07-13 16:49:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me that the only reason you want him around are the advantages it gives you - driving you, making use of him - but you don't want to chill with him, or have sex.
Let him know honestly, and move on. He sounds like a nice guy who deserves better than being used.
Just be sure before you do, that you really don't want him, because there's not much chance of getting back, if you dump him now. You seem to have a high opinion of yourself, "...sexy and can have lots of guys..." and there's nothing wrong with that, as long as you are being realistic about it.
2007-07-13 16:56:42 · answer #2 · answered by Barb Outhere 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what i think you should do is tell him that ur feelings have changed for him and that u still love him as a friend but nothing more and ur sorry! just pray about it! because jesus will help you with this he will keep you strong! because you can't be with someone you dont have feelings for and dont love anymore trust me thats what went on between me and my last b/f my feelings totaly changed towards him! just let him down easy! i know it wont be to easy but i belive you can do it! because god will be right by ur side helping u because god dosent want u with someone u cant love that way or dont have feeling for like that!!
God Bless!
I hope i helped you some!
Brittany
2007-07-13 16:53:53 · answer #3 · answered by angelbrat18_1989_2009 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-07-13 16:53:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, you are USING him. And that is deplorable. Just tell him it's over & move on. The truth being said is better for your self esteem & his as well.
2007-07-13 16:51:13 · answer #5 · answered by LuckyJack 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You use and then you abuse. Yeah, maybe he was just using you as a trophy and for sex. Time to move on.
2007-07-13 16:50:23 · answer #6 · answered by late4ever 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your not happy with your relationship with him then go ahead and break up with him. Mabey talk to him about it and tell him how you feel.
But if yuo dont love him anymore...then break up wit him
2007-07-13 16:48:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you'd rather be with other guys, then stringing this one along doesn't seem fair. Break it off gently, but be honest with him.
2007-07-13 16:49:03 · answer #8 · answered by Sarah M 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
u know what.....sometime ppl think ...something is better than nothing..I think too.....but not all the time......relationship not as like as grocery item....by the way ...it's depend on your mind... i think this is the way to think yourself...
2007-07-13 17:16:55 · answer #9 · answered by sky m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him the truth about how you feel.
2007-07-13 16:49:44 · answer #10 · answered by michelle s 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋