my marriage problem?

Question

my boyfriend castee is muslim & my castee is hindu

Answer 1

No problem you both can marry without changing you religions by court marriage. Court marriage as you call it is solemnized under the Special Marriage Act, 1954 all such marriages can take place between any two Indian citizens as well one Indian citizen with a foreigner irrespective of their religion, caste or creed, and you can say this is the secular form of marriage available in our country. Such a marriage is solemnized before the marriage officer/registrar usually D.C. deputy commissioner of the area (Sub registrar/SDM is the marriage officer/registrar only in case the already solemnized marriage under any other Act has to be registered) where both or any of the parties to such a marriage reside permanently or for at least one month. Cost of such a marriage is merely Rs90/- or as the rate prevalent in your area. Now how you proceed? Both the parties to the marriage file a joint application before the marriage officer along with individual affidavit attested by notary public specifying the age(boy 21yrs &girl 18yrs), place of residence, marital status(unmarried or divorcee as the case maybe), mental status(not idiot or not with unfit mind), not related to each other. Along with this you have to give proof of age( School certificate, Passport,) , proof of residence(Passport, ration card, voters id card, rent agreement) , & the application of such a marriage should be witnessed by 3 independent adult persons, affix one photograph of each of the parties & all the 3 witnesses. You have made such an application/notice to the marriage officer in person along with all the 3 witnesses. On receiving such an application the marriage officer issues a month notice regarding the intended marriage & get such a notice affixed on the notice board out side his office, a copy of such notice is sent to the marriage officer under whose jurisdiction the other party lives, also a copy is to the individual parties address. After expiry of the period of notice a date is fixed on which all the persons parties to the marriage & 3 witnesses appear again before the marriage officer who declare them married & issue a certificate to this regard. Incase of any objections raised the marriage officer will settle these objections. Now what can be objections that can be raised? These can ONLY BE REGARDING THE CONDITIONS NECESSARY FOR SUCH MARIAGE & NOTHING ELSE. What are the conditions? As I stated above i.e. Age, martial status, mental status, prohibited relationship (related to each other by blood). This is the brief procedure I have told you here, incase you want any clarification you can ask.

Answer 2

Because of the different culture, you may face lot of problems.
You have to give more thoughts about this, if you want to avoid untold miseries.
or you have to convert from Hindu to Muslim community, if you are serious about marriage.

Answer 3

Muslim religion- Hindu religion - What caste you do belong?
Think of your parents, relatives and sisters if any?
Later, you decide what to do

Answer 4

If you love each other, caste is no problem at all. Go and live separately and form a religion of your own.

Answer 5

Is your bf earning. Then , no worry.
If he is not earning, dump him. There are very few things in India worse that an non earning boyfriend.

Answer 6

take legal advice and do a civil marriage

Answer 7

No problem, if you both are really love each other.
REALLY means REALLY.
First think with your mind not with heart.

Answer 8

if u love each other then whats caste and religion gotta do with it ................be sure that u love him ......................i think u r .........so why are u afraid ...........go ahead

Answer 9

So wat its okey