Whats up ladies. I want to know how you would feel in this situation. Lets say you are a waitress and you occasionally notice a guy who eats there once a week or so. One day, he slips you a letter saying how much of a cool person you seem to be and how he has noticed you for some time but he doesn't want your phone number or anything because he's happily married, but he says that you are very attractive. The letter just goes on about how confident you walk and carry yourself, how you seem like a leader and how he admires you in general. Would you be offended? flattered? spooked? And lets say that prior to recieving the letter, you didn't think much of him but he was your "type". I really want to know how you guys would honestly feel.
2007-07-13 15:54:21 · 20 answers · asked by Red 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would be both flattered and offended... Flattered that he had such nice things to say about the way that I carried myself but offended that he would notice me on that level when he had a wife. I would think that he was a creep to pay a woman other than his wife so much attention.
2007-07-13 15:59:57 · answer #1 · answered by Honey423 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am currently married; however, when I was single if that had ever happened I would have politely excepted the note and said thank you for the comment but at the end I would be on the creaped out side for the simple fact that the guy is married and he is admitting to it in the note. That's a bit strange!
2007-07-13 16:00:04 · answer #2 · answered by antnstacie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol this sounds like it's a personal question..if he was thinking all of that he couldve just said it out loud instead of taking the time to write it out cuz obviously he's been thinking about the woman more than he should. i would be kinda spooked but i would take it as a compliment and leave it at that, because he is married and im not a homewrecker, lol
2007-07-13 16:00:28 · answer #3 · answered by ~Anonymous~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To tell you the truth, yes I would be flattered, but I wouldn't want to be second to a married mans wife and children... any way , if a married man did this, then it seems to me that he's not sooo happy being married...and looking for a way out or a plaything....
2007-07-13 16:06:34 · answer #4 · answered by blue moon lady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
21/f opinion
First off if I knew he was married
for certain I'd be like why is he
doing this he is married...&& has a loving wife I don't think I'd be spooked just a little
suspicous in what he was looking for..
I mean he has a wife what in the world
is he thinking?!Good luck!! :D
Hope I helped
2007-07-13 16:00:58 · answer #5 · answered by manda102285 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it would definitely spook me out!! First of all why would he leave her a letter, why don't he just talk to her-second he's married so what would be the reasons of him telling this girl all the things he admires in her!?
2007-07-13 15:59:15 · answer #6 · answered by ღ|l°Coltrane°l|ღ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well.. I would be flattered till i found out that he was married.
To me that shows dishonesty, kinda like hittin on a woman other than your wife. Its nice to point that out to someone if you are single but leave it to yourself if you are married! just a thought!
2007-07-13 16:00:27 · answer #7 · answered by just4now 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ehh. It's kind of weird. It's a compliment but weird. If this is the guy asking, stop. If this is the girl asking, meet a new guy, and try to avoid waiting at that table.
2007-07-13 15:59:04 · answer #8 · answered by kristingirl2010 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would think he was trying to feel me out to see if I would try to act on the letter in some way. Basically I would see it as him hitting on me.
2007-07-13 16:00:46 · answer #9 · answered by furious but whatever 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would find it strange that a married man was writing me a letter!
2007-07-13 15:57:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋