about virgnity?

Question

okay so, on her first time if a girl doesnt tell a guy she is a virgin, will he still be able to know? why?

- also, i was told by someone, when they had sex for the first time it took them 3 hours to get through and at first its very painful, but then someone else told me they didnt even notice?? which one is more true?

and if a girl isnt a virgin but tells her guy she is will he still be able to know she isnt, a fat woman once told me she could fake being a virgin to a guy??? / :

Answer 1

you should tell the guy you are a virgin. an experienced guy , who cares about you, will take his time and help you with it.

guys can tell you are a virgin by the way you act. you have no idea what you are doing.

sex takes as long as it takes. some people like to go for 3 hours, some dont. some guys would like to go 3 hours, but only get 3 minutes.
a guy who cares about you is not going to keep you in pain for 3 hours. just be careful who you pick. women always pick losers.

it can be very painful, or could be over before you know it, without any pain. you have to remember that women and guys privates vary as much as everybody's height. some people are big, some are small. small woman with big guy will hurt more then big woman with small guy.

you can only fake being a virgin to an inexperienced guy. and you should never fake it anyway.

the fat woman can fake it for reasons i cant explain on yahoo. they dont like sex talk.
and if your a virgin you wouldnt understand what i was saying anyways.
i will say it has nothing to do with being fat,some women have more control over them selfs then others, they can make them selfs smaller.

now relax. when it happens, it happens.

Answer 2

Now days girls are so active with cheerleading, gymnastics...ect, that the hymon actually gets broken before the virginity is lost. What I am saying is girls who are virgins don't always bleed on the first time anymore. You shouldn't have sex with someone you don't feel comfortable being honest with. I'm not sure if you are planning on faking virginity or faking promiscuity either way don't have sex with someone you have to fake anything with.

Oh and the first time doesn't really hurt it's just a little scary and the anticipation of what it's going to feel like builds up so much that you get stressed, dry up and then it gets complicated. Relax and it wont be a problem.

Answer 3

Ok first of all. It's different for each girl. Sometime the skin that makes you a virgin has already been broken before you ever have sex from riding a bike or something of that nature so in that case, it wouldn't hurt so much. If not, it does hurt the first time. To your other question, sometimes a guy can tell. It depends on your body.

Answer 4

1) Trust me, The guy will be too horny to try and find out if your a virgin, but there is the bleeding
2) 3 hours is unlikely, and yes should be painful, you are ripping tissue, but not every girl is the same
3) same as #1, exept maybe you could fake it If you looked and moaned as If you're in pain

Answer 5

it isn't necessarily painful and I am sure it does not take 3 hours!
if you are worried about it then don't be pushed or rushed into it. Best to wait for someone you really care about and trust. You might bleed a bit, especially if you don't use tampons, as there is a thin,non-painful membrane that he breaks. That's all. He won't know for sure whether you are or not, but why you would want to lie is beyond me. Besides, is it really any of his business?!

Answer 6

Why would you need to lie about it? If you are a virgin, then it will hurt the first time and you will bleed, so he will know. If you aren't, then I don't understand why you would say that you were. In the end, you should be honest with whomever you're with.

Answer 7

most girls have what is called a hymen. It is in the opening of your vagina. If you have it, it will be difficult to break the first time of intercourse. Girls who dont have a hymen (a tissue it could vary in shapes and sizes) they can lie and fake it. It can also be broken by too much exercise or riding a horse.

Answer 8

I'm a virgin myself but I also heard it hurts but for only about a minute. I kow a fat woman could act like she's a virgin. I mean hey.

Answer 9

well guys would always know if a girl is really a virgin or not.because when you first lose it you bleed a little.and you are the most tight you will ever be.and on your first time it does hurt like hell.but after the first time that when it gets pleasurable..

Answer 10

Yes because the first time for a girl hurts.