he is getting mad because I told him to stop buying me things. Im not the type of girl that likes my man to buy me stuff and I told him to stop and hes all pissed off.What can I do? sometimes it seems like hes trying to buy my love because its constantly and I dont need him doing that
2007-07-13 14:58:26 · 26 answers · asked by ღ 3SA sL33PY CaNT B3 sToPP3dღ 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Im only 16
2007-07-13 15:06:51 · update #1
Let him buy gifts girl!! :)
Always subtly reassure him that you love him (if you really do) no matter what and that won't change. Don't say whether or not you give me gifts, but instead point out good things about him that make you want to be with him!
On a lighter note ....... don't worry the gifts don't last too long ..... I don't know what age you are of ....... but if you get married to this guy, the gifts will soon end hehehehe ;)
2007-07-13 15:03:42 · answer #1 · answered by Slite 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
One would think are you crazy ! but there can be a problem with that...he could be thinking he spend X amount on you and he deserves something in return...thats a bad message to beleive and I think your handling it in the right way..what he needs is some guidance of what will prove to you the extent of his love without only spending money....your in a good position to form the perfect guy for yourself...some guys want to be...they just don't know how.
2007-07-13 15:05:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
take the gifts and put them up if he likes getting you things does not mean he is trying to buy you just his way of showing his love for you
2007-07-13 15:01:44 · answer #3 · answered by MOET 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to just stop buying you so many things. If he wants to buy them for you, and he'll get mad if you say no, just ask him to buy like one or two things for you a month.
2007-07-13 15:01:18 · answer #4 · answered by Bladez 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like he's insecure and he feels the need that him in the relationship is not enough for you to stay so he has to buy you things. Tell him your appreciate it that he likes to treat you, but you'd like it more if it were only once in a while.
2007-07-13 15:01:35 · answer #5 · answered by young n' free. 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
everybody would of completed the comparable! What if his ex became at his verify domicile once you have been ther? AWKWARD.!! i'd of completed the suitable comparable mayb not finishd my bf over it yet wuld of long gone psychological :)
2016-10-21 05:11:59 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well tell him ur not that kinda girl tell him u liked him way b4 he started buying you things my i think they get all mad because they try to make you happy but the end up going a little 2 far so ya tell him ur not that kinda girl
2007-07-13 15:03:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you truly care for him, just explain the way it's making you feel. Maybe the money could be used on dinner dates, movies, etc. Be careful with his feelings when you talk to him.
2007-07-13 15:05:27 · answer #8 · answered by sorri 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that..but dont be like dont buy me anything...tell him that u like him for him and just seeing you everyday is the best gift u can give me.
2007-07-13 15:01:03 · answer #9 · answered by Hawaii 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
when he does, just act like it's no big deal.Either he will stop or if he gets mad that your not appreciative of what he gets you,then that means he's expecting something in return.Which means he's not buying you gifts for you,he's actually buying them for him.
2007-07-13 15:02:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋