How hard can it be for 19 year old if she had a baby
... and your boyfriend stuck by her and now togeather they are married ???>>i know someone like that...just wondering???
2007-07-13 14:35:09 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I suspect that someone is you. Everyone might be telling you it is hard because your married and a parent at such a young age. You aren't the first and you certainly won't be the last. You are your own destiny don't live your life trying to please others. Think before you act about the pros and cons. God never gives us more than we can handle this is how your mindset should be. I'm hoping you are mature for your age and have your priorities straight. For starters finish your education because knowledge is power also gives you security and something to fall back on. Have your own bank account. Live within your means. Make time for yourself so you don't become overwhelmed. Always put your family first don't let outside influences come between you. Whatever obstacles you face as a couple deal with it as a couple. Make time to be with your child because what they remember most is your presence not the presents. Learn how to balance yourself emotionally physically and financially and it is a piece of cake! Many blessing to you and your family.
2007-07-13 14:58:45 · answer #1 · answered by Aphreakywuman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about the three oclock feedings. Think about this small human being that can do nothing for theirselves. Think about it you have a crying baby and heck if you know why they are crying. It could be teething. It could be the baby has a tummy ache. Could be the baby is constipated. They you sit there and try to calm the baby. Where is the father he is either at work or he is out with his friends. If by chance he is at home he does not know what to do so he leaves it all up to you. Money is also tight cause you have a baby and cannot afford daycare so you do not work. But you probably argue a lot and this makes it much worse. If I was you I would just try it.
2007-07-13 22:13:34 · answer #2 · answered by cackle_2002 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They didn't give themselves the benefit of higher education. Life as they knew it, all the fun and hanging out and being carefree has ended. They have a full time job now raising a child and providing the best for that child. There may be resentments because of all the stress having a child to care for at such a young age brings, which could break them up and then she would be a single mom with no resources to fall back on. The kid will suffer most through all of this. Need I continue?
2007-07-13 21:42:18 · answer #3 · answered by gma 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Only someone that has never been married with a baby would ask that. Marriage in itself is difficult if you really want one that lasts longer than 6 months. A true marriage is a matter of give and take and requires much sacrifice that most teens and really young adults aren't ready for. Adding a child to mix makes it even harder because now there are 3 to consider.
2007-07-17 21:01:11 · answer #4 · answered by lilbitsanantonio 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OMG....it's hard...the real burden would be financial at that age..and that is the worst. 19 is just too young. Yeah people do it, but wait if at all posible.
2007-07-13 21:41:50 · answer #5 · answered by trixibel 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well..
i would go to school insted, and get a great job and be rich .... but being 19 acting like an adult, in a world like that, would be horrible, especially if i had a baby. my mother would kill me..
hah :]
2007-07-13 21:39:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hard to do what?
2007-07-13 21:40:49 · answer #7 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋