Isn't that crazy?

Question

My sister comes very often to apartment where I live with mom with children and it gets noisy. It's always... When she comes, she talks loudly complains about problems with her busband and his family who only thinks of using him and get most of money. Ya know his family lives in Poland and they think he's "rich". My family would talk about this 1000 times. I get on that so angry because it often disrupts with my studying or planning schedule for studying. I have summer school now and soon finals so it is important for me to not get delayed with my projects becuase ot this. She even comes on Sundays! She even used to come on weekends before summer. Local libraries in my area are either closed or opened only until 5. No one time I had to drive to library in my university which is 30 miles away from home. It gets me so upset. I am currently looking for job. I wish I could have find a job that would allow me to get rent close to my campus.

But is there a chance that with job such as data entry or bank teller or even as salesman in some store I have chance to get rent for $500 m + other cost with living. While going to school full time I do not think I would able to take more than 25, maybe 30 if I was allowed to work on weekends.

I live in Chicago suburbs and go to university in Chicago City.

She goes around whole living room, whole apartment and I hear all noisy complaints through thin walls.

Unfortunately I live in apartment complex so I can't study outside. And I do not have friend connections due to many reasons :( I feel only moving out of house would solve my problems. And face it, I was more that 10 times studying in university libary and coming after midnight and what, she still invites her!

Answer 1

Move close to college. I doubt that talking with either your sister or your mother would help much. I'm sure you could find a job near the college, maybe even at the college. Lots of students looking for roommates as well. Independence, that's the key.

Answer 2

How about simply talking to your mother about your need to study. I would point out to her that you are trying to improve your chances at finding a good job that will help the family out in the future. Tell her that you cannot study if your sister keeps interrupting, and your sister isn't going to be supporting her in her old age, you are. If you move and have to work to live on your own, you will never get that education.

Have you tried headphones or ear plugs??

Answer 3

seem uninterested in what she has to say or give her really really really lame advice and maybe she'll seek an ear to bend elswhere. also start talking about all you troubles and assignments and nething else you can think of and when she feels what you are feeling now maybe she'll try to avoid the place. or call and say ya'll wont be home and tell mom u have homework and disconnect the phone until u'r work is done 9 times out of 10 if it comes to u'r future then mom will help keep the place quite

Answer 4

yes.
maybe you should tell your sister to stop complaining so much.
and explain to your family that they talk about this 100000 times over and over again, and its interrupting you from your studies.

you could go study right outside of your house while they fight lol or you could go to your friends house...

Answer 5

So...you're saying your sister has a busband?

Answer 6

I think you are overdue for a talk with your sister!!

Answer 7

ya

Answer 8

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