Does this relationship have a chance?

Question

I was 15 when me and my boyfriend met, he was 18. Now hes almost 20 and im almost 18. When we met i was very childish and i had managed to keep certain parts of my life before him a secret. This came back to haunt me and cause me to have a ton of insecurities throughout the relationship and would lead me to accuse him of doing this that i actually did. Over the course of the past couple years ive been trying to grow up, but i sitll find myself lying to him once and a while about silly things because im afraid of what he might think. Were now on a break. But he said he just wants me ot change and mature and be ready to settle down, (as in get married) I love him. I really do, and he says he loves me but he just can only see the worst in me after everyhting we've been through, and he doesnt feel a spark anymore. He also said that theirs a chance he could have feelings for some one else. I just feel like a load of crap, like after all of this i dont mean anything, but i know that

its my fault and i shouldnt have lied and my insecurities did this to myself. I just want to be able to grow up and spend my life with him. he really makes me so happy. Is there any chance of this working out. I need help, tips, advice...anything?

hes not insecure he just doesnt trust me

Answer 1

It would be difficult for this to work out. You don't have his trust, and it would take a long time for you to EARN it back. You both would benefit from getting away from each other, and taking time to evaluate what you each want.

Answer 2

No chance at all.... it's not your secret past...it's his insecurities about you past that will not allow this relationship to survive....

Answer 3

if theres something you dont want to talk about dont go on the subject or it might accutally be funny