i looked in my new boyfriends cell phone. im not usally this 'stalkerish but i couldnt help myself. i found texts from other girls now i feel crap and i dont know how to go about this what do i do next? they know im with him now but i dont want to admit i went through his phone ahhhhhhhhhh!
2007-07-13 13:44:18 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The girls would not sms him if he did not respond with interest. You may think he's your boyfriend but as long as he's keeping these other relationships alive, he's available.
Just Blow him off and wait for the real guy who will shut down all others for his love of you.
2007-07-15 07:22:20 · answer #1 · answered by Caretaker 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you looked in his phone, then you don't trust him. If you found things you didnt want to ... then you shouldnt trust him.
Trust your instincts.
If it were me, I wouldnt tell him that I went through his phone, but I would let him know you think something is up and I would dump his ***!
You are too good for those kind of games!
Respect yourself!
2007-07-13 20:49:43 · answer #2 · answered by Sooocali 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to employ a talk now look later policy. Never look without asking. Practice open communication, its the fastest way to discover the truth. That includes when he won't talk to you.
2007-07-13 20:50:33 · answer #3 · answered by thewildeman2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you know you shouldnt have done that. now you dont like what you saw. I would be honest with him and also apologize and let him know you won't do that again. they could be friends of his.there is a chance though he may drop you as he will be angry and feel like you went behind his back and was sneaky.
2007-07-13 20:48:52 · answer #4 · answered by avalon123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him and ask him about it. if he doesnt have anything to hide he'll just laugh about it. if he does have something to hide then he'll get mad and argue and use reverse psychology on you and start questioning you. and if he breaks up with you then it he's not a faithful guy. better to break up now then later.
2007-07-13 20:49:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just straight out ask him...there comes a time when all lady's do some snooping of their own to see if it was what it seems to be. if yall talk it out then maybe things wont be as crazy as you think they are
2007-07-13 20:48:09 · answer #6 · answered by ms neisha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry about what they said but worry about how he answered back the texts
2007-07-13 20:47:40 · answer #7 · answered by riskybusiness 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just admit it he might be okay with you being an honest person
2007-07-13 20:47:29 · answer #8 · answered by glamorboo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋