I think my sisters may be using me?

Question

So my sisters recently got into a fight. Not even a few days pass and they are both calling me up and want to hang. I feel like a fool cause i'm not sure if they really want to hang with me, instead their just replacing eachother with me. Are they using me?

Answer 1

In a way, yes but they are probably not concoiusly aware of it. We all use people we care about to some agree and often without realizing it or trying to.

It is likely that each of them might try to get you on their side. Feel free to hang with both ,but if the quarrel comes up just say that it is not your quarrel and you love both of them. Do not take saide, even if one appears to be much more right than the other. Hang with them (if you want) ,but do not get dragged into that quarrel.

you might consider letting the newly abraised feeling settle a bit before you spend time with either, but in any case do not even let them tell you the story. Just let them know you wish to stay out of it completely.

Answer 2

Yes, but sit down with both of them and make them work out whatever caused them to get mad.
Let them know you are feeling used. And when one sister calls don't tell her what the other said and vice versa.



Your are lucky to still have your sisters, i just lost one of my sister (we were very close) in Dec. 2006

Answer 3

yeah u answered that one right sister... they are replacing the other with you... which is sad, but true...

you should set the two of them up, tell them both to meet you somewhere at a certain time and then dont go, that will show them that they can play you for a fool...

Answer 4

Well if they used to hang out a lot, then they might just be hanging out with you because they need someone else to hang out with. They might not necessarily be using you, but they shouldn't just hang out with you because they don't want to hang out wth each other. You should talk to them though; they might just need someone to be with because they're hurt. Good luck.