Why does the world suck??

Question

Alright, I know that we all think our life couldnt get worse every once in a while. I'm just really pissed off right now, so if you think I'm a pathetic loser for writing this, then just ignore it and dont answer. My greatest apologies if it bothers you what I write.

So today, I was pretty happy. Average kind of happy, you know. Like, normal. But now my mother's acting all pissed off and she gets all worked up over literally nothing. and she opened a tv dinner (shes pissed off bc my dad didnt cook dinner tonight) and some of the brownie is all squished up, kinda melted or something. and she's like "great" in a sarcastic voice. so I yell "just put it back in teh box" bc she always has her stupid ipod on when im talking and she yells at me "shut up" i never swear at other people (yeah, I guess Im swearing in this, but I dont actually cuss when I'm talking. I was taught not to, and for some messed up reason, it stuck) so, as you can see, my mom is a dramatic *****.

i kinda ran out of room, so im typing more. I know this is just a small problem that I should forget about, but my family is always like this. I cry all the time because of them. They just make me feel so bad, all the time. My mom screamed at me that Im crazy and need to see a shrink... do you have any idea what that feels like??? I just... I want to know why people cant just keep their anger to themselves if its over nothing. Or why cant they just be reasonable. why cant they just.... act like families are supposed to?? :'( I'd like to hear other people's opinions, and if oter people feel like I do. Thanks very much, C.

also, to tjnstlouismo, I wasnt waiting for my parents to cook me dinner. I would have been fine going without it or cooking my own. Actually, I was getting dinner ready for myself before she yelled at me and I ran upstairs. May I also mention, that if you believed that I am an immature ungrateful person, you didnt have to write. I said so in what I wrote. I have to admit, I am a very dramatic person. but a lot of the time, when I am angry, it started because someone was acting annoying, rude, etc. for no reason. I am twelve years old. It is not my job to cook dinner for a mother who has one of teh best jobs ever. I just dont understand why she couldnt just make herself something to eat instead of going all weird.

She was acting so immature. My dad had just gotten home like, half an hour ago. He had gone from work to the store (its easier) and she expects him to cook dinner for her in so little time?? she was home before him, maybe she could have cooked, eh??

I do try hard. I'm lazy, I admit it. But I liek to please people. Once, a little while ago, I woke up at five in teh morning and cooked them breakfast. Scrambled eggs and toast (..its the only thing I know how to make that doesnt have microwave instructions on teh back) and you know what?? I gave a plate to my dad and guess what he said?? "Oh, I dont want breakfast" not "thank you, it was very kind of you" my mom ate the one i made for her, I mean, sometimes it switches. sometimes my dad is the one being mean. but why cant they just be grateful for the little things people do??

To all the people with the same type of problems as me, I guess we all have to stick together. I try to think about the good people in my life at times liek this. Once, a girl who never knew me came up to me bc i looked sad and said "we've gotta stick together, dont let anyone tell you ur not cool. your cool, remember that" I wish my parents were like her, you know??

Answer 1

Well C for one thing this is the real world and only on TV all familys are perfect. But I understand your anger with your MOM if your Dad didn't cook dinner why doesn't she do it. Hey it won't kill her to cook and if she doesn't liek what she's going to eat go out and get something to eat and try not been a drama queen in front of everybody around her. But you know how parents get some days when their days don't go right. But don't worry just everytime this happens just leave the room and IM me anytime and we can chat. Theier no use in arguing about it with her. So just don't think about it and it would be so back.

Answer 2

You can't control what other people do, you can only control yourself. You have alot of excuses in your letter as to why you were disrespectful to your mother.

All you can do is change your own attitude and stop feeling sorry for yourself. The world doesn't suck, but your behavior does. I don't care what your mother did, you are the one who wrote.

What's wrong with you cooking a meal? Why are you expecting your parents to wait on you hand and foot? Do you think if you pitched in and maybe eased the way for your mom and dad, they would be less stressed?

If you consistently acted with maturity, at least started dinner, cleaned up the bathroom, took out the trash, did the dishes and did some of the laundry, at least your own clothes, maybe your mother wouldn't have anything to b**ch about and you would stand on your own two feet alittle.

If you are already doing all that, then why was your mother eating a lousy tv dinner after working all day? Take some initiative and step up to the plate.

Answer 3

I thought i was the only one with problems. your mom sounds like my dad that how he is the same way i just got in a fight with him because he does not give a **** about anything but his mp3 play & f*** N weed, his brother steals from us all the time to buy drugs and my dad does not do nothing about it. life can get worse but it can also get better. sometimes i think i am better off with out him. but this is about you. work it out one day at a time right now let time go by and hope for the best. all i can say is i hope thinks get better for you and god bless you.

Answer 4

Read what you have typed. You are dramatic also. Kind of like mother....like daughter. I think your Mom is stressed about homelife, work, and probably overwhelmed by chores she has to do and maybe financial worries. Don't add to her worries by smart mouthing her. Be nice and you will find that she will be nice back. Maybe not today....but tomorrow. Good luck.

Answer 5

first i feel really bad for you and i have similar situations all the time so dont feel like ur the only one. second, just try to talk to her about it and tell her that ur upset if she doesnt listen then ignore her for like 2 days shell eventually feel guilty for what she did and then shell apoligize.