If you are still single at 35?

Question

What are the chances of ever meeting someone in your age group, who is not a divorcee' with children?

I know this is a stupid question, but I'm dealing with loneliness issues. Seeing a therapist, all that. I'm sure I'll get some wiseass responses to this, but so be it.

Answer 1

i dont know i just broke up with my fiance of 5 years and he is now 35. he has kids, but i dont and im 28. so it depends on what your age group range is. i would still be interested in him i guess if he wouldve worked on the things i had issues with. i hope your therapist is helping you. i had a friend who was 30 who just recently committed suicide and i believe 60% of it was due to loneliness. as i am trying to deal with not being married yet and having kids, i just keep telling myself its just not my time yet.
hang in there!

Answer 2

Well, too late for me--I'm married w kids at 27. My husband is 40. Really, I'd rather not be married, but I'm not happy in my relationship, so that's an issue too. Right now, I can just imagine the fun I'd be having being single. I would guess the chances of finding someone w/o kids might be slim in the 30's but not impossible. Online might be a good way as stats are usually posted.

Answer 3

The older I get the more I realize that it is impossible to meet a man without children and or an ex wife. or baby mamma (pardon the colloquialism)

Thankfully I'm not attracted to men in my age group and am young looking enough to attract men younger than me while lying about my age. Lots of men in the age group I'm attracted to would only want me because I am older and I don't want that. Thankfully I don't believe in marriage and have no desire to be a human incubator.

It is harder for a man to find a straight up single childless woman than for a woman to find the converse because of the societal pressure woman are under to marry and/or breed

Answer 4

stop the money you are paying your therapist and use it to date a woman. see if shes the one you want to marry if not, say good bye and date another woman unless your therapist is your date. so whats the deal with wiseass responses. they are wise or intelligent, but the stupid doesnt accept it because if they did, they probably wouldnt have the problem anymore.

Answer 5

Nowadays it's pretty hard to find a woman that's over 30 that isn't a divorcee and/or has children. I'm an example of that. I find it strange that you have a problem with that, but hey, everyone is different. Good luck finding a woman with no children that is over 30.

Answer 6

Meeting someone in the mid-thirties who has never been married with children is slim, I'd imagine. But, if you reject that demographic out-of-hand, you limit your choices severely. You could meet a divorcee who thinks you are the answer to her dreams, and her kids may end up as a wonderful addition to your life.

Answer 7

in accordance to a learn completed of school-knowledgeable single women in 1986 (it truly is the main recent one I easily have), 30-year-olds have a fifty 8% to sixty six% possibility of marrying, 35-year-olds have a 32% to 40-one% possibility, and 40-year-olds have a 17% to 23% possibility. The survey you're thinking of became taken making use of a pattern of 60,000 families, mutually as the single i'm bringing up used 13.4 million families. EDIT: I ought to in all probability upload that 70% of girls polled the year in the past believed their lives would nevertheless be "satisfied and finished" whether they have been single. It went as much as ninety% 4 years later.

Answer 8

I have to admit that the chances are slim, but don't write off divorcee's with children I'm sure there are some very nice ones out there and hey, you get an instant family. Relax and broaden your horizons; you never know who you might find out there.

Answer 9

I just acted that I was 55 and a virgin lol on another thread.

Your chances on meeting girls is probably better then mine because I'm still a teen. You have the rights to go to clubs and bars legally. You should become more socialized with girls when you go to the bars and stuff. Talk to others around you I guess. Hopefully you will land with the girl that you want.

Answer 10

Hey , you need to get out there and make new friends. They'll help combat the lonliness and will definately help the dating process along.You meet peole through people.. :-)
Besides you're 35 you have plenty of time.
I's better spending 20 years with Mr./Ms.Right than 50 with Mr./Ms. Wrong.......
Stop worrying and relish every secondof life.
Wishing you every success.