I know how much this means to him but he knows that I don't want to move out of the country... Not now anyway. I told him that if he really wanted it, he should do something about it. It's the right thing to do. It's not a sure thing yet though. Question is, should I just break up with him now? As much as I don't like long distance relationships, I also don't want to keep my bf from doing what he really wants to do. And so far, he didn't mention or ask if I wanted to be with him in another country.
2007-07-13 12:00:51 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ask him if he has thought about what this means for the two of you. He might just be assuming that y'all will stay together or you will go with him...the thought might not have even crossed his mind that you have other plans.
This just recently happened to a friend of mine. She almost got a job in Cali and we live in Florida. She never once for a minute thought that he wouldn't go with her...well, lets just say it's a good thing she didn' t get the job. You need to talk to him about this: trust me.
2007-07-13 12:10:08 · answer #1 · answered by Shay_Shay03 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would you go out with me?
NO right. Loving a person don't come easy. I mean bf and bg just don't coming running in the door. It take time and enviorment.
Right now he love you and you love him. So stay that way. Long distance relationship can work. just email each other. If you have time to go here, then you must have an email you can email him.
Stay in contact, and me with him during vacation. At least you can go out the country and see the world with someone you trust and love.
Like you said, you are not sure about long distance relationship. So just give it a try for a while. If it does not work, then break up. Don't rush thing because if he decide to stay because of you. You would think right now, he is the best, he give up a good chance for you. But few years later, he might said that he would have make more money if he took the job back then.
No one know. Give it a try on the long distance.
2007-07-13 12:08:09 · answer #2 · answered by ken401lam 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up now? That is entirely up to you, however take a look at a few things~ He may move out of the country, you don't like long distant relationships, and you are asking if you should break up. All of those things tell me you want to break up. Think about it. Follow your instincts.
2007-07-13 12:07:04 · answer #3 · answered by pattimaris1675@sbcglobal.net 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you really love him. My girlfriend let me move to another country. Well, we're still going out, but it's not the same. The feelings between us is starting to fade. We've had a long distance between us for 3years, which worked out pretty good, but we where in the same country back then. It seem that when you move to another country (in my case a 9000miles) you forget about one another. Speak to him about it first, if you really want to be together, I would suggest a compromise, but don't try and have a relationship whilst in dif countries - it DOESN'T work
2007-07-13 12:09:42 · answer #4 · answered by qrund 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You guys should definitely sit down and sort things out. If he is really going to move out of the country I am sure you guys came reach a mutual understanding instead of it being all on you to make that decision alone to break things off. In my opinion I think that's best that you guys sit down and talk about it and come to a decision like adults. Good luck! Cheers
2007-07-13 12:08:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't break up with him yet, see if he really moves out of the country. Is this a permanent or temporary move?
2007-07-13 12:09:38 · answer #6 · answered by Di 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont break up just yet, wait it out until you know for sure he will go and that he doesnt want you with him. Be prepared for anything good or bad. Breaking up now and him not go that could just end up hurting YOU!
2007-07-13 12:05:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-29 22:55:29 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, I think you should be talking to him about all that's going on in your mind. Communication is the key component in a relationship. Be honest with him.
2007-07-13 12:14:45 · answer #9 · answered by Mouse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up if he decides to move.
2007-07-13 12:03:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋